Boy, it sure does stink getting old. I always feel like I'm falling apart or something's getting injured or something aches for no apparent reason.
When I was pregnant with C I twisted my knee on the stairs. I chalked it up to loose ligmanets due to pregnancy. It hurt quite a bit but eventually healed. I probably should have had it seen by a doctor but never got around to it. After some time the pain went away even though every once in a while I would step wrong and it would get out of whack for a short period of time.
I did not realize it would come back to bite me.
Last weekend I came up with this bright idea that we should have a family raking the leaves day on Sunday. Did I even get pictures? NO. I remember when I was a kid I loved leaf raking time. It was tons of fun so I just assumed my kids would love it as well.
Not! I bought bags and we all trooped out. D asked why we were wasting our time doing this because he wanted to reorganize the basement LOL! I told him it would be good for the kids and we didn't have money to pay someone else double LOL!!! The kids just whined. They were cold, they were hungry, they were tired, their legs hurt, it was boring. On and on and on. They perked up when some friend stopped by and they had contests as to who could bag the most leaves or have the biggest twig pile.
I kept tripping over stuff and it was making me mad. I seemed to find every little hole in the ground, stick to trip on or stumble on the raised tree roots. At one point I tripped on a root and felt a searing pain in my knee. Stupid me kept raking because I really wanted to get the leaves done. Finally I quit and went in to ice my knee. I figured the next day it would be better. Unfortunately, it hurt worse so off to the doctors I went.
After a brief exam and an x-ray the doctor decided I tore the cartilege on the inside of my knee, called the meniscus (sp?). He sent me for an MRI which I had done later that night. Really icky. Luckily, I didn't have to go all the way in. My follow up appointment is Tuesday, which I actually need to reschedule. Better go do that now. It's feeling so much better. I took the kids to my dad's so I can rest. It's been rather relaxing. I pick them up tomorrow. Crossing my fingers that I don't need surgery!!
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Thursday, November 6, 2008
This and That
Wow, what a week! I guess I shouldn't have been surprised at the turnout of the presidential election but so be it. Now, let's see where this change takes us and if we really do benefit. It was interesting on election day as a lot of people walked to the polls, including families. I don't ever recall seeing that but I'm not sure I drove around in the morning either. It started raining when I voted.
So, dh is worried I could be pg. I've been trying to get to bed earlier in hopes of getting up earlier. I seem to be more productive in the morning once I actually wake up. Plus it would be nice to be dressed, fed, etc. before DN comes for the day. So far I've been getting in bed earlier but not going to sleep much earlier. Plus I'm tired all the time from C's sleeping habits.
So dh asked if I was pg LOL! I said I hope to heaven not!!! And if I was then certain activities would be abolished from our household. HAHA! I guess I didn't make matters any better when I bought a jar of pickles the other day. However, we had them for our dinner "party" Friday evening and I wanted more. It's been so long but I grew up with sweet gherkins and sometimes you just like that good old comfort food.
Mia's making strides in school/ballet. She's been nodding in answer to questions and walking in on her own. That's some progress. She says she's going to talk when she turns four. We shall see.
Instead of trick or treating this year, the kids invited some friends over for dinner and games. For lack of a better word I called it a dinner "party" but it wasn't meant to be a Halloween party. Several families came, we had spaghetti dinner and the kids had a FAB-O time! They said it was better than trick or treating and asked if we could do that every year.
My DN has been really sick. He was in the hospital last weekend with either RSV or viral pnemonia. He was out all this week as the dr. thinks he's still contagious since he's chest congested and wheezing. I talked with my SIL today and the baby's dr. seemed to think he'll be contagious all next week as well. Oy! I feel badly that I cannot take him but as we agreed it would be a nightmare if it started going through out house. Mia seems to be at the tail end of some sort of cold virus and now Madison's starting. Hopefully it'll pass soon. My DN is feeling better with more energy and eating so that is good news. We do miss the little bugger but I'm trying to get some things done while I'm down one. Still not so easy with two little ones. I was thinking of having someone come watch them for a couple hours, dropping C off somewhere when Mia's in school or taking C to my dad's to spend one night. Can't really decide but I'm uber frustrated at not getting anything done around here and just following C around while she destroys one thing after another.
I attended an interesting LLL conference this past Sunday that was actually held at my church. I attended the seminars for newbies and hope to make some progress on my stuff. Tomorrow's the Friday meeting so we'll probably go to that. Oh, my friend with the new baby came to the LLL thing. He was soooooooooo small and sweet. I did want to hold him but was afraid of infecting him with anything. I feel melancholy about having a newborn around but know in my heart that our quiver is full. Life is good and God has greatly blessed us.
So, dh is worried I could be pg. I've been trying to get to bed earlier in hopes of getting up earlier. I seem to be more productive in the morning once I actually wake up. Plus it would be nice to be dressed, fed, etc. before DN comes for the day. So far I've been getting in bed earlier but not going to sleep much earlier. Plus I'm tired all the time from C's sleeping habits.
So dh asked if I was pg LOL! I said I hope to heaven not!!! And if I was then certain activities would be abolished from our household. HAHA! I guess I didn't make matters any better when I bought a jar of pickles the other day. However, we had them for our dinner "party" Friday evening and I wanted more. It's been so long but I grew up with sweet gherkins and sometimes you just like that good old comfort food.
Mia's making strides in school/ballet. She's been nodding in answer to questions and walking in on her own. That's some progress. She says she's going to talk when she turns four. We shall see.
Instead of trick or treating this year, the kids invited some friends over for dinner and games. For lack of a better word I called it a dinner "party" but it wasn't meant to be a Halloween party. Several families came, we had spaghetti dinner and the kids had a FAB-O time! They said it was better than trick or treating and asked if we could do that every year.
My DN has been really sick. He was in the hospital last weekend with either RSV or viral pnemonia. He was out all this week as the dr. thinks he's still contagious since he's chest congested and wheezing. I talked with my SIL today and the baby's dr. seemed to think he'll be contagious all next week as well. Oy! I feel badly that I cannot take him but as we agreed it would be a nightmare if it started going through out house. Mia seems to be at the tail end of some sort of cold virus and now Madison's starting. Hopefully it'll pass soon. My DN is feeling better with more energy and eating so that is good news. We do miss the little bugger but I'm trying to get some things done while I'm down one. Still not so easy with two little ones. I was thinking of having someone come watch them for a couple hours, dropping C off somewhere when Mia's in school or taking C to my dad's to spend one night. Can't really decide but I'm uber frustrated at not getting anything done around here and just following C around while she destroys one thing after another.
I attended an interesting LLL conference this past Sunday that was actually held at my church. I attended the seminars for newbies and hope to make some progress on my stuff. Tomorrow's the Friday meeting so we'll probably go to that. Oh, my friend with the new baby came to the LLL thing. He was soooooooooo small and sweet. I did want to hold him but was afraid of infecting him with anything. I feel melancholy about having a newborn around but know in my heart that our quiver is full. Life is good and God has greatly blessed us.
Friday, October 17, 2008
A new birth
I must say, one of my favorite "things" is a newborn. There's nothing more special than a pregnant woman and subsequently her newborn child. So new, so fresh, so unspoiled.
But there's another birth that I think usurps the specialness of a newborn babe. And that's the birth of a new creation in God's kingdom when someone gives their heart to Jesus. Some people refer to it as a "born-again" Christian.
I remember when I publicly gave my heart to Jesus some 20 years ago as a young adult. I need to dig up that photo somewhen in the house here. Man do I love digital photos on the computer. How nervewracking it is to stand up there with every eye in the church on you! But a small sacrifice to know that you are one with Christ.
Last Sabbath I think I had the best honor a mother can have. My first-born, my son publicly gave his heart to Jesus. Matthew w
as baptized in a beautiful ceremony by Pastor Antonio. He's taken Bible studies for the past six months or so and as a matter of fact, it turned out that it was Pastor Antonio's first baptism as well. The Pastor had asked Matthew to write why he wanted to be baptized and read it or have someone else read it. He chose to have me read it.
as baptized in a beautiful ceremony by Pastor Antonio. He's taken Bible studies for the past six months or so and as a matter of fact, it turned out that it was Pastor Antonio's first baptism as well. The Pastor had asked Matthew to write why he wanted to be baptized and read it or have someone else read it. He chose to have me read it.Okay, now it was my turn to be nervous! In the end, Matthew decided to answer for himself and I was never more proud. He's a wonderful, sensitive and caring child. So often I wonder what his birthmother thinks/
feels after the passage of all this time. Does it seem like forever and a day to her? One more day that she thinks and wonders what her first-born is doing or is like? Or has she tucked the memories away only to take them out for brief moments at inconspicuous times? For me the time has flown by. I can't believe Matthew will be ten in a few months. Some days I ache to share with her how special this young boy is and what a wonderful young man he's growing to be.
feels after the passage of all this time. Does it seem like forever and a day to her? One more day that she thinks and wonders what her first-born is doing or is like? Or has she tucked the memories away only to take them out for brief moments at inconspicuous times? For me the time has flown by. I can't believe Matthew will be ten in a few months. Some days I ache to share with her how special this young boy is and what a wonderful young man he's growing to be.I was so glad that so many of our friends and family were able to join us. Darrin's entire family came which kind of trumped mine this time since no one from my family was there. We went back to the house and had a great lunch. The kids all had a good time and it was nice to sit and chat with everyone. Food wasn't fancy but it was tasty enough and easy to prepare. Even easier to clean up!
So cheers to Matthew. I'm so proud of you and I do look forward to the man you are growing to become.
What I'm Sewing
I got a bit more sewing done this week. Last night I redid a bunch of honor patches on the sashes that I had sewn on the wrong side. The sashes are worn on the RIGHT shoulder, not the left. However, Matthew's should have been sewn on the left, since it's a second sash because he has that many honors for the past four years.
I also sewed the patches on my counselor's shirt for our Induction Ceremony this past Wednesday night. That was a real bear. First off, the patches kept migrating despite my pins, so when I was done sewing, they were crooked. Then I sewed one in the wrong place and had to remove that as well. The problem with removing the patches is that the shirt was a loose weave so I had to be ever so careful when using the seam ripper so that I didn't rip more holes in the shirt than I did. Thankfully, most of them were covered by the patches.
I actually really didn't like the shirt. I got a size up so it wouldn't be too small. Nothing like resembling a big blue sausage in front of the church. My skirt is a tad large as well since I've lost a bit of weight since I bought it. I actually really love the skirt but I guess in another 5-10 pounds I'll downsize to the navy pants. Maybe then I'll look a little more trim!
I got a wild hair and decided to sew my drawstring bags. I bought some PUL to make diapers and such from a girl in town on Craigslist. I also bought velcro and foldover elastic but I haven't used those as yet. This one print was light blue with bears and balloons. A girly print but not something I was too fond of so I decided to make drawstring bags to hold dirty diaps. I needed a couple extra so when my original diaper bag is in the laundry I still have something to put dirty diapers in. My husband has gone on complete diaper strike and hates them so I have to toe the line!
I pulled up a couple patterns on line and went to town. The first one I sewed the wrong way so it's wider than it is taller but still works. The second I started to sew the wrong way but ripped out the seams and redid it. However, I sewed two "cord" seams but only needed one since the configuration was different than the first. I tried to use a wire hanger to thread the drawstring but finally figured a safety pin was easiest. But that was only because when I was ironing the PUL, I ironed it closed in places. Who knew?
So here's a photo of the finished products. They don't function exactly 
what I had in mind but they'll do and I've already put them to use. They'll be great swim bags as well to hold wet swimsuits and towels and such.
what I had in mind but they'll do and I've already put them to use. They'll be great swim bags as well to hold wet swimsuits and towels and such.Have I said how much I HEART my sewing maching? I plan to make a toss pillow cover next with some really cool brown polka dot fabric my SIL gave me. I HEART her too :)
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Pregnancy and Infant Loss
October is pregnancy and infant loss month. October 15 is the day of rememberance. Lighting a candle here for my angel lost on 12/10/2003. Lighting one for my sister and her sweet angel two years ago.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Words Words Words
Charlotte has an appointment today with the linguistics lab at UMD. Every so often one of the resesarch departments call with a study for infants/small children. They are very interesting and aside from the schlepping around I enjoy them. Charlotte usually gets a free toy or book.
Today it's the linguistics lab and they sent a worksheet to fill out for how many words C says. I didn't really think she was saying all that much but apparently she has more words than I gave her credit for. She "talks" all the time with all sorts of things using proper tone and inflection. For example, she'll hold something up to me, say a few words and then end on a high note as if she's asking a question. Plus she sings in the car all the time. I love it! I figure when she really starts talking she'll start with sentences LOL!
Here are the words she can say at 17 months 5 days:
ouch, uh oh, dog, doll, banana, shoe, ow, fork, light, out, da da, mama, bye-bye, snack, thank you, that, this, down, Charlotte, Declan, Matthew, Mia.
I think her first word was Matthew, although, I didn't realize what it was at the time. Whenever he's around and then goes somewhere, Charlotte calls his name and goes looking for him. The other week when he spent time at the in-laws, she went in his room at bedtime calling and looking for him.
Brothers are very special :)
Today it's the linguistics lab and they sent a worksheet to fill out for how many words C says. I didn't really think she was saying all that much but apparently she has more words than I gave her credit for. She "talks" all the time with all sorts of things using proper tone and inflection. For example, she'll hold something up to me, say a few words and then end on a high note as if she's asking a question. Plus she sings in the car all the time. I love it! I figure when she really starts talking she'll start with sentences LOL!
Here are the words she can say at 17 months 5 days:
ouch, uh oh, dog, doll, banana, shoe, ow, fork, light, out, da da, mama, bye-bye, snack, thank you, that, this, down, Charlotte, Declan, Matthew, Mia.
I think her first word was Matthew, although, I didn't realize what it was at the time. Whenever he's around and then goes somewhere, Charlotte calls his name and goes looking for him. The other week when he spent time at the in-laws, she went in his room at bedtime calling and looking for him.
Brothers are very special :)
Friday, October 3, 2008
Friday Five
Top five wacky things this week:
1. Madison adopts a worm in an acorn and intends to build a home for it until it runs away leaving Madison to sob.
2. Mia won't talk to her teachers at school.
3. Matthew asks what those bean things are that hang below his you know what.
4. Weird Halloween costumes.
5. Charlotte's all-out flail on the floor kicking and screaming temper tantrums.
1. Madison adopts a worm in an acorn and intends to build a home for it until it runs away leaving Madison to sob.
2. Mia won't talk to her teachers at school.
3. Matthew asks what those bean things are that hang below his you know what.
4. Weird Halloween costumes.
5. Charlotte's all-out flail on the floor kicking and screaming temper tantrums.
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Vending Machines
Not all they're cracked up to be!
I got a free coupon for a rental at the Red Box DVD rental stand since I bought two box of french toast sticks and a package of Keebler cookies. Yes I spent and extra $3.49 on cookies to get a $1 coupon for a free movie LOL!
I promised the kids a movie night tonight so I figured I'd use my coupon and get them a movie. Plus, I've been wanting to see the new Sex and the City movie and they had that as well. Couldn't find it on Comcast On Demand, so there Comcast!
We swung into our local Giant store and went about the process of picking a movie all three would enjoy -- harder than it sounds. During the checkout process, I kept waiting for a coupon code thing to come up. I figured it might be after the "what's your email" phase.
I tried putting my email in but I type too fast for the machine to keep up so I said forget it. The next screen that popped up was "Your movie is dispensing" so of course the biggies had to fight over who was going to get the movie out of the machine. Just like when we take an elevator anywhere.
Turns out, under the HUGE rent a DVD section of the screen is a microscopic section where you can rent with a promo code ROFL! Leave it to me. Of course, I'm always scattered when I'm doing anything with the kids so I'll just blame it on mommy brain. As long as I return them by tomorrow it's only $2. Two for less than the price of one Comcast on Demand. So there!
The kids are pajama'd and watching Dinotopia. Well, everyone except Charlotte. She's wandering around whining because I won't open the green dot paint she's carrying around. Pizza should be on it's way soon. We'll be a bit late tonight but I guess that's okay. But only if I get to watch my movie, too!
I got a free coupon for a rental at the Red Box DVD rental stand since I bought two box of french toast sticks and a package of Keebler cookies. Yes I spent and extra $3.49 on cookies to get a $1 coupon for a free movie LOL!
I promised the kids a movie night tonight so I figured I'd use my coupon and get them a movie. Plus, I've been wanting to see the new Sex and the City movie and they had that as well. Couldn't find it on Comcast On Demand, so there Comcast!
We swung into our local Giant store and went about the process of picking a movie all three would enjoy -- harder than it sounds. During the checkout process, I kept waiting for a coupon code thing to come up. I figured it might be after the "what's your email" phase.
I tried putting my email in but I type too fast for the machine to keep up so I said forget it. The next screen that popped up was "Your movie is dispensing" so of course the biggies had to fight over who was going to get the movie out of the machine. Just like when we take an elevator anywhere.
Turns out, under the HUGE rent a DVD section of the screen is a microscopic section where you can rent with a promo code ROFL! Leave it to me. Of course, I'm always scattered when I'm doing anything with the kids so I'll just blame it on mommy brain. As long as I return them by tomorrow it's only $2. Two for less than the price of one Comcast on Demand. So there!
The kids are pajama'd and watching Dinotopia. Well, everyone except Charlotte. She's wandering around whining because I won't open the green dot paint she's carrying around. Pizza should be on it's way soon. We'll be a bit late tonight but I guess that's okay. But only if I get to watch my movie, too!
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Let The Games Begin!
Survivor Gabon has begun! I love this show. Usually it's "date night" for dh and I. It's also Karate night so we usually tape and watch later. However, I can't stay up to watch a two-hour show starting at 10 so ... I'm watching it now!
The first couple nights of Surivor are like starting a new job or going to the first day of class. New people, new places, different things to get used to. It's fun to watch a show with dh and discuss. Gives us something else to talk about besides the kids LOL!
Have no favorite yet but what kind of name is Sugar? Oy. I wonder at some of the tribe-building picks and if the first challenge is of any consequence, Fang is in for it! Can't wait to see how things shake out!
The first couple nights of Surivor are like starting a new job or going to the first day of class. New people, new places, different things to get used to. It's fun to watch a show with dh and discuss. Gives us something else to talk about besides the kids LOL!
Have no favorite yet but what kind of name is Sugar? Oy. I wonder at some of the tribe-building picks and if the first challenge is of any consequence, Fang is in for it! Can't wait to see how things shake out!
Update
Wow, I can't believe it's been over a month since I last posted. It's been so, so busy!
The biggies got settled into school and are doing fine. Matthew is doing ITBS testing this week and is getting fairly good grades. As he gets closer to double digits in birth-age, it occurred to us that we should begin having those talks with him. I'm not ready to delve into relationship issues and the like just yet and neither is he but I want him to be aware of the changes that will start taking place at some time in the not too distant future.
Madison has settled into school quite well. I don't get daily reports but it seems she's doing fine. She surely has a stubborn streak about her and it really comes to play during homework leading to unnecessary worry on my part about her learning. I don't know if she's outgrowing her behavior or the diet is working or a combo of the two. I definately notice a difference when she eats certain foods.
Mia started preschool. She's still having trouble with drop off and rarely talks to people. That makes me said but most days she says she's happy at school and has fun. I know she really enjoys running around on the playground with the other kids. I do look forward to the day where she runs off in the mornings of her own free will.
Charlotte is growing by leaps and bounds. At her 15 months check up she was 60% weight I think and over 95% for height. She really is my biggest girl yet! She's into everything and really giving me a run for my money. I certainly don't remember Mia being into as much as C is. Driving me crazy! She's working on a few words but I think she's more into gross motor skills than verbal aquity. She communicates quite well for someone not speaking much and we can usually figure out what she needs after a couple tries.
I'm watching my nephew now and that's going well. He's very sweet. I'm busy with the Adventure Club at church and enjoyed the first class of 4th graders. I co-op'ed at Mia's school and enjoyed that as well. Other than working the ebay and live auction things not too much else is going on.
Oh, we are god parents to my nephew now. Very beautiful church service. Plus we had the LLL of Columbia picnic at the petting farm and visited the Johnny Appleseed Festival at another farm. That was lots of fun until Pumpkin Head scared Mia. That's three strikes so I guess we'll avoid the costumed creatures for now. Wonder how Halloween is going to go over?
Tomorrow my in-laws pick up Matthew for his one-on-one visit. I'm praying the weather is bad so they can't do the boat trip. At the beginning is a picture from one of our farm trips.
Monday, August 18, 2008
First Day of School!
Well, we survived it, even with an alarm clock malfunction! We had a relatively relaxed morning until DN arrived and figured we could probably get up 15-20 minutes later and still have plenty of time.
The kids ran ahead of us into school and were already settled by the time we reached their classrooms. Madison's was a madhouse but she had already found a seat and followed the three-step directions on the board. I hugged her teacher who Matthew had for 2nd grade as well. So surreal being back in that classroom but with another child. Shew but the time do fly! I didn't really get a chance to talk with the teacher or take a picture of Madi with the teacher but we got a couple of shots.
Next we went down to the other end downstairs to Matthew's class. By comparison, his classroom was silent. There were about 8-10 kids and they all were sitting in their seats, hands folded in front and staring at the front board. The teacher was at her desk. The difference in the two classes was humorous to me. Even the third grade was full of parents, kids and commotion. What a difference a grade makes, eh?
I need to adjust pick up so I'm not sitting in the queue so long. DN cried almost the entire time. It'll get better as time goes on and people get used to the pick up and drop off routine. Matthew has 23 students with only one from last not that didn't return and no new students. Madison has a couple new students, perhaps three or four, and only one that she can remember that didn't return. Madison said she was a mean girl so it was okay LOL!
I can't believe our summer is over and it's time for a new academic year. I can't wait until Friday when they'll come home with homework packets, letters from the teacher and etc. School newsletters will be coming by email from now on and then we'll be in the thick of it. If I remember correctly, Sally Foster comes home this week or next as well. Jumping right in as they say!
The kids ran ahead of us into school and were already settled by the time we reached their classrooms. Madison's was a madhouse but she had already found a seat and followed the three-step directions on the board. I hugged her teacher who Matthew had for 2nd grade as well. So surreal being back in that classroom but with another child. Shew but the time do fly! I didn't really get a chance to talk with the teacher or take a picture of Madi with the teacher but we got a couple of shots.
Next we went down to the other end downstairs to Matthew's class. By comparison, his classroom was silent. There were about 8-10 kids and they all were sitting in their seats, hands folded in front and staring at the front board. The teacher was at her desk. The difference in the two classes was humorous to me. Even the third grade was full of parents, kids and commotion. What a difference a grade makes, eh?
I need to adjust pick up so I'm not sitting in the queue so long. DN cried almost the entire time. It'll get better as time goes on and people get used to the pick up and drop off routine. Matthew has 23 students with only one from last not that didn't return and no new students. Madison has a couple new students, perhaps three or four, and only one that she can remember that didn't return. Madison said she was a mean girl so it was okay LOL!
I can't believe our summer is over and it's time for a new academic year. I can't wait until Friday when they'll come home with homework packets, letters from the teacher and etc. School newsletters will be coming by email from now on and then we'll be in the thick of it. If I remember correctly, Sally Foster comes home this week or next as well. Jumping right in as they say!
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Reading Update
So I recently read The Other Boleyn Girl. I really enjoyed it and read the entire book within a week. Then I wanted to see the movie. There seemed to be such a fuss going around about it. Didn't have the time.
In the meantime, I checked out the next two books by the same author; The Queen's Fool and The Virgin's Lover. I think the names are correct. I didn't get into the Queen's Fool as much but did enjoy the historical aspect of it all. I learned some things I didn't know before.
Now I'm about halfway through the last book about Queen Elizabeth. It's better than the middle book but not as good as the first, in my opinion. So much strategy in the queen's court in those days. My British history is rather shabby so I'm not sure where the story is going so it's still an interesting read.
Saturday night I watched the movie The Other Boleyn Girl and boy was I disappointed. Even though I can't remember all how the book went, the movie sure took it's poetic license with restructuring events. And if I had not read the book first I would have spent much of the movie trying to figure things out.
I feel that there was just too much in the book for the movie to even come close. The movie left out so much and just scratched the surface. It didn't delve into the relationships brother George had or the reflections of Mary. I didn't feel like I got a real sense of the conflict between the two sisters or the real scandal of Anne's first marriage. They left out the birth of children even.
I know it's hard for a movie to follow a book so I shouldn't have been too disappointed but I almost felt like I wasted my $5. I sewed and ate coffee cake while it was on after everyone fell asleep so that aspect was very pleasant. I do wonder if they'll make any other movies?
In the meantime, I checked out the next two books by the same author; The Queen's Fool and The Virgin's Lover. I think the names are correct. I didn't get into the Queen's Fool as much but did enjoy the historical aspect of it all. I learned some things I didn't know before.
Now I'm about halfway through the last book about Queen Elizabeth. It's better than the middle book but not as good as the first, in my opinion. So much strategy in the queen's court in those days. My British history is rather shabby so I'm not sure where the story is going so it's still an interesting read.
Saturday night I watched the movie The Other Boleyn Girl and boy was I disappointed. Even though I can't remember all how the book went, the movie sure took it's poetic license with restructuring events. And if I had not read the book first I would have spent much of the movie trying to figure things out.
I feel that there was just too much in the book for the movie to even come close. The movie left out so much and just scratched the surface. It didn't delve into the relationships brother George had or the reflections of Mary. I didn't feel like I got a real sense of the conflict between the two sisters or the real scandal of Anne's first marriage. They left out the birth of children even.
I know it's hard for a movie to follow a book so I shouldn't have been too disappointed but I almost felt like I wasted my $5. I sewed and ate coffee cake while it was on after everyone fell asleep so that aspect was very pleasant. I do wonder if they'll make any other movies?
One one-hundredth of a second ...
I remember when I got married, just shy of 14 years ago. Which reminds me we should plan something special for 15, no?
We got engaged in November 93 and married in August 94. So we basically spent the better part of a year engrossed in the minute details of planning a medium-sized wedding. When the day dawned, it seemed we had the world ahead of us, an entire day to surround ourselves with family and friends. I put my gown on and faster than you can snap your fingers, it was all over. Such a strange feeling to be done with something so quickly that took so long to plan.
Well, that's what I thought of the other night when I watched Michael Phelps win his 7th gold medal and won by just that much -- 1/100th of a second. I mean, really, there isn't even a way to measure that in any practical every-day sense. I must have watched the replay 20 times and still couldn't fathom how they could tell who came in first. It was really amazing.
The next day I heard about the Jamacian runner who finished his run in less than ten seconds. Years and years of training, sweating, pouring out all your energy into something that is over in ten seconds! Mind boggling, don't you think? It's over before you even can wrap your mind around the fact that this is your moment in time. There's no time to relish the moment of being a contender in the Olympics. The starting fun fires and then it's over.
It's all so incredible. Some of the stories are so touching and amazing. I enjoy hearing as much about that as I do watching some of the events; swimming, diving, indoor volleyball, beach volleyball, gymnastics. I guess those are my favs right now. I watched some tennis, soccer, basketball, boxing and sabre as well. Not sure how they score the boxing. That was confusing, in deed. Seemed a little too subjective, if you ask me.
I haven't been able to watch as much as I wanted but try to keep tabs on the scores and such. Often I think back to the old times when Olympics were first organized and wonder about the atheletes, the spectators, which sports and what sorts of times and things they had. No fancy aerodynamic swimming costumes for ancient romans!
We got engaged in November 93 and married in August 94. So we basically spent the better part of a year engrossed in the minute details of planning a medium-sized wedding. When the day dawned, it seemed we had the world ahead of us, an entire day to surround ourselves with family and friends. I put my gown on and faster than you can snap your fingers, it was all over. Such a strange feeling to be done with something so quickly that took so long to plan.
Well, that's what I thought of the other night when I watched Michael Phelps win his 7th gold medal and won by just that much -- 1/100th of a second. I mean, really, there isn't even a way to measure that in any practical every-day sense. I must have watched the replay 20 times and still couldn't fathom how they could tell who came in first. It was really amazing.
The next day I heard about the Jamacian runner who finished his run in less than ten seconds. Years and years of training, sweating, pouring out all your energy into something that is over in ten seconds! Mind boggling, don't you think? It's over before you even can wrap your mind around the fact that this is your moment in time. There's no time to relish the moment of being a contender in the Olympics. The starting fun fires and then it's over.
It's all so incredible. Some of the stories are so touching and amazing. I enjoy hearing as much about that as I do watching some of the events; swimming, diving, indoor volleyball, beach volleyball, gymnastics. I guess those are my favs right now. I watched some tennis, soccer, basketball, boxing and sabre as well. Not sure how they score the boxing. That was confusing, in deed. Seemed a little too subjective, if you ask me.
I haven't been able to watch as much as I wanted but try to keep tabs on the scores and such. Often I think back to the old times when Olympics were first organized and wonder about the atheletes, the spectators, which sports and what sorts of times and things they had. No fancy aerodynamic swimming costumes for ancient romans!
Gluteney in America
Tomorrow is the first day of school for my older two. Hard to believe! The summer has flown by and it just doesn't really seem that we did all that much. Was relaxing but perhaps too boring for my kids? I must say they didn't complain much about being bored. So that's a good thing, in my book.
I probably gained ten pounds just from eating this weekend. Friday for lunch I treated the kids to Chick-fil-a. Then Friday evening we went to a friend's to celebrate her dh's birthday. Saturday afternoon we went to a different friend's to participate in their fund-raising lemonade stand for child leukemia and stayed for bbq afterwards. More good food and treats!
Today we had a cookout with Mia's new preschool class. Lots of good food! I think we all ate off and on for three hours LOL!
To celebrate back to school we treat the kids to a dinner out the night before school begins. They chose Cheeburger Cheeburger because we see the commercials on TV a lot. Looks fun and entertaining and a friend said the fries and onion rings were good, as well as the milk shakes.
It's a fun 50's type of place with burgers, malts, shakes, soads, fries, etc. They have formica tales and a counter with round stools. Kind of reminded me of the show Happy Days.
As you come in the door they have a huge bulletin board with a lot of pictures on it. The sign proclaims that if you eat a pounder burger you can get your picture taken with a gigantic stuffed burger with the fixings and have it pasted on the board for all to see what a pig you are to eat all that food. For the record, it's actually 20 ounces of meat, a big more than a pound.
And if that's not bad enough, they even have a "junior" edition for those 12 and under -- a mere half-pound of meat. Oy! Is that something you really want your child to aspire to do? Just today I was heard a report on the radio talking about the children that are grossly overweight and how schools now need to buy new equipment to accommodate children that cannot use what they currently have.
How are we supposed to address these issues when everywhere we turn there are advertisements for food that command "bigger is better"? Extra large value meals, prizes for eating the largest burger, all you can eat buffets, super large frozen meals.
Just to summarize, I was not all that impressed with our dinner. There was a man who, in fact, ate the pound burger. Their waiter came over with said stuffed burger and digital camera, proudly and loudly proclaiming to the entire restaurant that this man did eat 20 ounces of beef while everyone clapped and cheered. We clapped too but now I'm not sure why.
Our service was exceptionally show due to a large party that probably took up half the restaurant. We were lucky to get the waitress that had the large party so we were there for 90 minutes and spent at least half that waiting. At least the kids were well-behaved, however, no one ate much. I felt the food was okay but not something I intend to race back for.
So I keep in the back of my mind when I hear the news reports commenting on the awful consequences of obesity and the realities of eating in America.
I probably gained ten pounds just from eating this weekend. Friday for lunch I treated the kids to Chick-fil-a. Then Friday evening we went to a friend's to celebrate her dh's birthday. Saturday afternoon we went to a different friend's to participate in their fund-raising lemonade stand for child leukemia and stayed for bbq afterwards. More good food and treats!
Today we had a cookout with Mia's new preschool class. Lots of good food! I think we all ate off and on for three hours LOL!
To celebrate back to school we treat the kids to a dinner out the night before school begins. They chose Cheeburger Cheeburger because we see the commercials on TV a lot. Looks fun and entertaining and a friend said the fries and onion rings were good, as well as the milk shakes.
It's a fun 50's type of place with burgers, malts, shakes, soads, fries, etc. They have formica tales and a counter with round stools. Kind of reminded me of the show Happy Days.
As you come in the door they have a huge bulletin board with a lot of pictures on it. The sign proclaims that if you eat a pounder burger you can get your picture taken with a gigantic stuffed burger with the fixings and have it pasted on the board for all to see what a pig you are to eat all that food. For the record, it's actually 20 ounces of meat, a big more than a pound.
And if that's not bad enough, they even have a "junior" edition for those 12 and under -- a mere half-pound of meat. Oy! Is that something you really want your child to aspire to do? Just today I was heard a report on the radio talking about the children that are grossly overweight and how schools now need to buy new equipment to accommodate children that cannot use what they currently have.
How are we supposed to address these issues when everywhere we turn there are advertisements for food that command "bigger is better"? Extra large value meals, prizes for eating the largest burger, all you can eat buffets, super large frozen meals.
Just to summarize, I was not all that impressed with our dinner. There was a man who, in fact, ate the pound burger. Their waiter came over with said stuffed burger and digital camera, proudly and loudly proclaiming to the entire restaurant that this man did eat 20 ounces of beef while everyone clapped and cheered. We clapped too but now I'm not sure why.
Our service was exceptionally show due to a large party that probably took up half the restaurant. We were lucky to get the waitress that had the large party so we were there for 90 minutes and spent at least half that waiting. At least the kids were well-behaved, however, no one ate much. I felt the food was okay but not something I intend to race back for.
So I keep in the back of my mind when I hear the news reports commenting on the awful consequences of obesity and the realities of eating in America.
Friday, August 1, 2008
Welcome to My World
Today, August 1, marks the beginning of World Breastfeeding Week. Groups the world over are celebrating the beauty of breastfeeding this week through all sorts of activities.
I'm becoming more involved in a local La Leche League after having been a member for approx. seven years. I love the organization and its message of supporting breastfeeding mothers and their families is exceptional and close to home. I would not be where I am breastfeeding today without the support of the leaders and other mothers, nor would I be the mother I am.
I have learned so much from the leaders and other mothers over the years. I've learned so many other parenting and mothering concepts that I had never really even considered. I'm not perfect by any means, but I hope I'm at least better than I had been.
For some more information on international activities in celebration of World Breastfeeding Week, you can visit World Breastfeeding Week.
So my closest La Leche group is doing their annual celebration at a local children's farm in September. A bit past the formal timeframe, however, it can be cooler -- to be sure. I am involved in another group and we've planned our celebration for Sunday. We're having a picnic at a local fire station from 11-2 with food, music, and a cool silent auction. Personally, I hope to score some new cloth diapers. My moose is too big for even some large diaper covers! Maybe her rise is too long?
This is an inaugural event for the Eldersberg group and should be lots of fun. J&J have put in a lot of time and effort to have a successful event. It's the single-largest fundraiser of the year. The local newspaper is planning to do an article on the event. Gotta love small-town newspapers :) The reporter covering the story wanted to interview a member of the group and somehow I was chosen.
I spoke with the reporter today and hopefully answered the questions in a manner that sounds intelligent. She sounded really nice so I hope my words don't get twisted to sound judgemental or fanatical. I dodn't they they will. She asked about how I became involved in La Leche, how long I've been a member, my breastfeeding experience, breastfeeding in public and the like. I can't wait to read the article and see what it says. Maybe if it's good I'll post a link LOL!
I'm really passionate about breastfeeding. Not only are there myriad of benefits for mom and baby (both physical and emotional) but also for the environment and society as a whole. That statisics for moms breastfeeding when their babies are born is increasing, but so much more needs to be done to increase the numbers of moms breastfeeding 6+ months down the road. A key to successful breastfeeding is support and I truly look forward to continuing to support and help breastfeeding moms and their families.
So, check out the World Breastfeeding Week website or the La Leche website to see how you can get involved in supporting breastfeeding families or attending an event.
Monday, July 21, 2008
I am SO not ready for this!
So, it dawned on me recently that my children are not so little anymore. Of course, M&C are still small, but the original M&M team are slowly growing up. Who gave them permission to do this? I told them they're not allowed to grow up so fast but they don't seem to be listening!
Last week I was out with the kids and Matthew shares some information with me. Now, I thought I had a good handle on observing my children but you know, after they potty train and learn how to wipe their own butts and wash their own hair, all bets are off. So, it came as some surprise whenMatthew told me he had hair on his legs. I was like what, hair on your legs? How is that possible?!?!
Later on I checked and sure enough, he had hair on his legs! Now, really, this growing up business is getting all too real! I mean sure, you're really in the dregs when they're babies and you're knee-deep in changing diapers and cleaning up spit up. Then they start school and as a parent you feel all proud, excited and melancholy that your child has passed another milestone.
But none of this compares to when your first-born announces that their body is on the edge of entering puberty. I asked my husband if hair on the legs was the beginning of puberty and if it was I was SO not ready for this! Holy guacamole! This can't really be happening. Children don't actually grow up do they? I mean, they stay in elementary school and you always feel young because you have little children. Right? Right?
Last weekend they kids when to the in-laws. Last year when I would talk with Matthew on the phone he sounded so little and far away. So it was easy to think that he was still a little boy. But this past weekend, he sounded, well . . . like a kid. Not a little kid but a boy's who voice inching into the land of voice-change! Just another clue.
And lastly, my son has his first crush. Actually, I think it's his second LOL! A friend of mine from church has a 12-year old and my son talked about her a lot in the past year. I kind of consider that his first unofficial crush. But tonight he told me he had a secret.
Apparently, he has a HUGE crush on a little girl from his 3rd grade class. She's a very sweet girl and comes from a family of 4 girls. Just what he needs - more girls LOL! For his first crush, he couldn't have made a better choice ;) He was all embarrassed he told me and asked me to promise not to tell anyone. Then he promptly told his dad.
At bed he said he wasn't sure why he had a crush on her. I asked what he liked about her. He said she is so beautiful and it didn't know why but he just loved her. He said he has a huge crush on her. I asked if he was going to tell her and he said he didn't know.
I don't know what to make of all this. Do you have the "Talk" at age 9 and 4th grade? I can't imagine where all this would go but kids are so much more savvy these days. Yikes! When I see him from afar and interacting with his friends, I can see how he's growing up into such a fine young man. He has such a sweet spirit and I really do look forward to seeing the wonderful young man he's going to grow into :)
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Allergy Update
So my dinner last night went well, especially since I hadn't planned it out ahead of time. I micro-defrosted my chicken tenderloins. Half I seasoned with Shake and Bake and the other I brushed with a little Olive Oil and sprinkled some salt, pepper and onion salt. I told Madison that I was making this chicken for us and the other kids had to have something different since they were so picky.
She didn't argue but I don't think she bought it either.
I also fixed white basmati rice, fresh corn on the cob and mixed veggies. It was delish! Everyone loved what they had except Mia. But then she's like that with food and I'll worry about that later. I'll devise or find a nugget recipe that's egg, wheat, soy and milk free at some point. Until then we can eat it plain w/ spices.
I was really encouraged to get a meal out that was theorhetically allergan free. I perused the Food Lion last night and found a couple things to try. I discovered today that I can make the corn cake packet and use goat's butter because non of it had allergans in it, including the "creamed" corn.
I'm keeping lists. Lists of banned foods, lists of allowable foods, lists of things she's tried and not liked, a list of each allergan and it's derivative for food shopping. I'll make a list to tack to the fridgie to remind us and at some point I'll probably make a menu of sorts to help with meal planning. On this side of things, I think I'll be easier to fix things we can all eat, even if the same or repetitive, so that no one feels singled out. It's just not fair to sit there and eat pizza and fix something different for my Madison.
My friend J, sent a recipe for Wacky Cake she saw in the newspaper over the weekend. It's an awesome recipe with the only allergan as wheat. Since I don't have to take the wheat out as of yet, I want to make this soon. I'm sure we can replace the wheat flour with a derivative and make it completely allergan free. We'll see. I'm going to make it properly first and then with an alternate flour or two to see how we fare. I'm excited about this! Oh and it has chocolate in it so it can't be too bad ;)
She didn't argue but I don't think she bought it either.
I also fixed white basmati rice, fresh corn on the cob and mixed veggies. It was delish! Everyone loved what they had except Mia. But then she's like that with food and I'll worry about that later. I'll devise or find a nugget recipe that's egg, wheat, soy and milk free at some point. Until then we can eat it plain w/ spices.
I was really encouraged to get a meal out that was theorhetically allergan free. I perused the Food Lion last night and found a couple things to try. I discovered today that I can make the corn cake packet and use goat's butter because non of it had allergans in it, including the "creamed" corn.
I'm keeping lists. Lists of banned foods, lists of allowable foods, lists of things she's tried and not liked, a list of each allergan and it's derivative for food shopping. I'll make a list to tack to the fridgie to remind us and at some point I'll probably make a menu of sorts to help with meal planning. On this side of things, I think I'll be easier to fix things we can all eat, even if the same or repetitive, so that no one feels singled out. It's just not fair to sit there and eat pizza and fix something different for my Madison.
My friend J, sent a recipe for Wacky Cake she saw in the newspaper over the weekend. It's an awesome recipe with the only allergan as wheat. Since I don't have to take the wheat out as of yet, I want to make this soon. I'm sure we can replace the wheat flour with a derivative and make it completely allergan free. We'll see. I'm going to make it properly first and then with an alternate flour or two to see how we fare. I'm excited about this! Oh and it has chocolate in it so it can't be too bad ;)
Feast or Famine?
I've collected some books from Freecycle over the past few months. The only one I felt compelled to read, "B is for Burglar" by Sue Grafton, I started reading and left at my dad's. Great.
In the meantime I bought some books online and reserved a book at the library. Yesterday I received three books; The Memory Keeper's Daughter by Kim Edwards, The Book of Ruth by Jane Hamilton and My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Picoult. I also bought The Other Boleyn Girl which I wanted to read first but I couldn't wait so I started the Picoult book last night.
I have only read one other of her books, The Pact, and really liked it, although it was a heavy topic. This one proves to be the same. I was into it right away, however, the narrative bounces from character to character and I get kind of confused at times as to who is doing the talking. Usually this happens late at night. ;)
This morning I received a notice from the library that my book was in. Astounding! When I reserved it a couple weeks ago, I was 300 something in line. A few days ago, no earlier than the weekend, I was over 150 something in line and yet today my book is ready and waiting for me to pick it up at the library.
So now I have four books to read! Most have no time limit aside from the library book and I promised the Boleyn girl to someone else when I'm done. It's so nice to have some interesting and exciting things to read for a change. I can't get into the birth book I'm supposed to be reading for my La Leche application. I don't know if it's because I'm done birthing babies or the fact that it's a Bradley book and when I do read it, I'm just reminded that I never really had a birth like that and never will. Or maybe it's because now I have these ultra interesting books to read.
I stayed in bed until 10 this morning to read. I really just wanted 30 minutes to read but I kept getting interrupted. Such is the life of a mama! And I wouldn't trade a minute.
In the meantime I bought some books online and reserved a book at the library. Yesterday I received three books; The Memory Keeper's Daughter by Kim Edwards, The Book of Ruth by Jane Hamilton and My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Picoult. I also bought The Other Boleyn Girl which I wanted to read first but I couldn't wait so I started the Picoult book last night.
I have only read one other of her books, The Pact, and really liked it, although it was a heavy topic. This one proves to be the same. I was into it right away, however, the narrative bounces from character to character and I get kind of confused at times as to who is doing the talking. Usually this happens late at night. ;)
This morning I received a notice from the library that my book was in. Astounding! When I reserved it a couple weeks ago, I was 300 something in line. A few days ago, no earlier than the weekend, I was over 150 something in line and yet today my book is ready and waiting for me to pick it up at the library.
So now I have four books to read! Most have no time limit aside from the library book and I promised the Boleyn girl to someone else when I'm done. It's so nice to have some interesting and exciting things to read for a change. I can't get into the birth book I'm supposed to be reading for my La Leche application. I don't know if it's because I'm done birthing babies or the fact that it's a Bradley book and when I do read it, I'm just reminded that I never really had a birth like that and never will. Or maybe it's because now I have these ultra interesting books to read.
I stayed in bed until 10 this morning to read. I really just wanted 30 minutes to read but I kept getting interrupted. Such is the life of a mama! And I wouldn't trade a minute.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Feeling Discouraged
It's been 3 weeks or so since I've talked with the ped about Madison's allergy issues. I've been reading boards, perusing magazines, talking with people and buying products. It's frustrating spending hours poring over ingredient labels and recipes, spending extra money on special products and then having my girl turn up her nose at them.
It's frustrating find products that *almost* fit the bill. It's frustrating that everything on the market, especially in traditional grocery stores, have soy in them. It's incredibly frustrating to break my little girl's heart time and again when I tell her no she cannot have something, and it's always the yummy things.
It's frustrating to go to a gathering or restaurant and try to figure out safe foods. It's frustrating not being able to pop into the drive-thru for a quick meal on the run or throw a pizza or nuggets into the oven for a fast dinner. It's heartbreaking when my son complains that it's her fault we have to spend so much time in the store.
It must be terribly frustrating for my sweet little girl to be denied things she's always eaten and can no longer have. Comfort foods, special treats and sweeties are now off limits to her.
I need to work on finding alternate recipes that are tastey and fun to eat. I need new nuggets, cookies, muffins, pancakes, waffles, just to name a few. I'm getting some lovely recipes and support from some friends. I found a great magazine via J entitled Living Without. I'm sure I'll find more resources as I go along. I'm also kind of mourning the things we won't be having/keeping in the house out of support for Madison.
Within a week after eliminating cow's milk, the rash was about 98% gone. So quickly too! Unfortunately, she had a flare up over the weekend so I'm not sure what triggered it. Hopefully not the goat butter because I can use that in baking. I need it! We'll just keep trucking along. She'll be off soy at least a year and probably cow's milk and eggs as well. I think those were all Class 6 allergans. That's a long time but hopefully that'll give her body a chance to get the allergans out of her system and let it heal. Then we can reintroduce the allergans after that at some point to see which ones cause reactions still. I anticipate that we'll all be a little healthier and have better eating habits a year from now.
It's frustrating find products that *almost* fit the bill. It's frustrating that everything on the market, especially in traditional grocery stores, have soy in them. It's incredibly frustrating to break my little girl's heart time and again when I tell her no she cannot have something, and it's always the yummy things.
It's frustrating to go to a gathering or restaurant and try to figure out safe foods. It's frustrating not being able to pop into the drive-thru for a quick meal on the run or throw a pizza or nuggets into the oven for a fast dinner. It's heartbreaking when my son complains that it's her fault we have to spend so much time in the store.
It must be terribly frustrating for my sweet little girl to be denied things she's always eaten and can no longer have. Comfort foods, special treats and sweeties are now off limits to her.
I need to work on finding alternate recipes that are tastey and fun to eat. I need new nuggets, cookies, muffins, pancakes, waffles, just to name a few. I'm getting some lovely recipes and support from some friends. I found a great magazine via J entitled Living Without. I'm sure I'll find more resources as I go along. I'm also kind of mourning the things we won't be having/keeping in the house out of support for Madison.
Within a week after eliminating cow's milk, the rash was about 98% gone. So quickly too! Unfortunately, she had a flare up over the weekend so I'm not sure what triggered it. Hopefully not the goat butter because I can use that in baking. I need it! We'll just keep trucking along. She'll be off soy at least a year and probably cow's milk and eggs as well. I think those were all Class 6 allergans. That's a long time but hopefully that'll give her body a chance to get the allergans out of her system and let it heal. Then we can reintroduce the allergans after that at some point to see which ones cause reactions still. I anticipate that we'll all be a little healthier and have better eating habits a year from now.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
ADHD Revisited
Coming to you live from my second floor! Finally dialed in to the wireless network with an old laptop. So cool!
So anyhow, I finally got back to the ped. to talk about the allergy bloodwork results that came in. The short result is that she's allergic to over 23 things, including cow's milk, soy, eggs and wheat. She's also allergic to rye but we don't really eat much of that. She's also allergic to green beans, kidney beans and another bean, perhaps white or pinto beans. The soy, eggs and milk were all level six allergans.
I came away from the appointment with a solid plan of attack.
First we begin to eliminate cow's milk/dairy and eggs from her diet. I'm not really sure how to go about this. I mean, when I did a dairy-free diet while nursing it was "easy" as easy as any of that could be. I could eat whatever I needed and continue cooking and feeding my family the same as always. But to eliminate dairy, eggs and soy from our family's diet is going to be difficult and potentially expensive. I know they make all sorts of vegan products but they are so pricey. I'll get rice milk for the girl and I can cook with that. I'm not so sure about finding an egg substitute for baking. I see myself making a lot of things from scratch.
Second, she needed more bloodwork. Since the wheat was so high, we did a celiac bloodwork up. Depending on what it reveals will affect what happens next. But at the very least, we'll need to eliminate wheat as well. We're good for rice, potato and oats. I'm sure I can fashion things from that. I don't think she has celiacs because she's never had problems with her stomach, stools or growth pattern. But you never know, I guess. I should probably do some reading up on that.
Third, we'll meet again in early August to have a strategy meeting before she goes back to school, which is what started all this. I was hoping to be dairy/egg-free by July 1 but looking ahead, I don't think that's a realistic time frame. Dr. S said that it could take a year for some of this stuff to be completely out of her system. I'm hoping that some of it will help her eczema at the very least. At the most, it'll have a positive affect on her behavior/learning capabilities.
I knew some of this was coming, in the back of my head. But now that the reality is here, I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around it. My original thought was to have the entire family eat the same so she didn't feel singled out. But I'm not so sure that's going to be entirely possible. I suppose I should just put it in the Father's hands and fall back on my mantra: one day at a time.
So anyhow, I finally got back to the ped. to talk about the allergy bloodwork results that came in. The short result is that she's allergic to over 23 things, including cow's milk, soy, eggs and wheat. She's also allergic to rye but we don't really eat much of that. She's also allergic to green beans, kidney beans and another bean, perhaps white or pinto beans. The soy, eggs and milk were all level six allergans.
I came away from the appointment with a solid plan of attack.
First we begin to eliminate cow's milk/dairy and eggs from her diet. I'm not really sure how to go about this. I mean, when I did a dairy-free diet while nursing it was "easy" as easy as any of that could be. I could eat whatever I needed and continue cooking and feeding my family the same as always. But to eliminate dairy, eggs and soy from our family's diet is going to be difficult and potentially expensive. I know they make all sorts of vegan products but they are so pricey. I'll get rice milk for the girl and I can cook with that. I'm not so sure about finding an egg substitute for baking. I see myself making a lot of things from scratch.
Second, she needed more bloodwork. Since the wheat was so high, we did a celiac bloodwork up. Depending on what it reveals will affect what happens next. But at the very least, we'll need to eliminate wheat as well. We're good for rice, potato and oats. I'm sure I can fashion things from that. I don't think she has celiacs because she's never had problems with her stomach, stools or growth pattern. But you never know, I guess. I should probably do some reading up on that.
Third, we'll meet again in early August to have a strategy meeting before she goes back to school, which is what started all this. I was hoping to be dairy/egg-free by July 1 but looking ahead, I don't think that's a realistic time frame. Dr. S said that it could take a year for some of this stuff to be completely out of her system. I'm hoping that some of it will help her eczema at the very least. At the most, it'll have a positive affect on her behavior/learning capabilities.
I knew some of this was coming, in the back of my head. But now that the reality is here, I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around it. My original thought was to have the entire family eat the same so she didn't feel singled out. But I'm not so sure that's going to be entirely possible. I suppose I should just put it in the Father's hands and fall back on my mantra: one day at a time.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Squirrely Squirrelly Squirrels
I was going to start off my blog with a snippet from Wikipedia about squirrels. However, there's a lot more information about squirrels there than I anticipated. For instance, I knew about grey squirrels, naturally, and black squirrels.
I've seen only one black squirrel in all of my town since I've been here; approx. 20 years. I used to see them frequently in the neighboring county where I grew up.
There are also albino squirrels with pink eyes. Pretty freaky looking, if you ask me. Apparently, there are also white non-albino squirrels which are not as white as their albino cousins, as well as red squirrels in England.
Squirrels like to chew on things to hone their ever-growing teeth. I guess that explains why they chewed holes in my plastic trash can lid. Aside from the obvious reason of getting at what's inside said trash can.
They are members of the rodent family which I feel makes them no better than their rat cousins. Even if they are cuter and their tails are fluffier. There is one picture on Wikipedia of a squirrel in Washington, DC that's the fattest squirrel I've ever seen. I guess not only people can benefit from the largess of the Nation's Capitol.
When I was about twelve, a squirrel started hanging around my grandparents yard. We stupidly started feeding it. The squirrel's favorite snack was not - surprise - nuts but dog treats. Specifically, "People Treats." I don't know if they still make these as a couple decades have passed since I was 12 but they were brightly colored dog treats in the shape of people such as mail men. Hence the name People Treats. The squirrel became very brazen and would climb up on the trash can and knock on the kitchen window for treats and attention. We stopped feeding it when it climbed up my arm. I guess it mistook my twig-like arm for a tree branch.
Earlier this year, we began having a problem with squirrels in our trash. Seeing as how we'd lost several lids on windy days, this was a real problem. However, it became a larger problem when they chewed a hole in the top of the only lidded can we had so they could get in the trash. I had know idea squirrels were such scavengers. Raccoons, yes. Squirrels, no.
We discovered that the squirrels had built a nest in the partially-finished ceiling of our carport. DH had a friend come and help him take the ceiling to discover a squirrel city condo going on up there. I'd like to say that that got rid of our squirrel problem but there were about 5-6 having a pow-wow in our yard today. Maybe it was the first day of summer camp.
My son received a bird feeder for Christmas from my uncle. It was a craft at some sort of event that involved wood, nails, glue and a humongous glass mason jar. It was very cute and recently we decided to hang it up in a tree for the birds, knowing that it would have been more useful in winter when food is scarce. I knew the squirrels would probably eat most of the food anyhow so whatever.
After two days, the *(^!#!%^^ squirrels had ripped the thing apart. The bottom half, including glass jar, was lying upended on the ground with seed scattered. The roof remained hanging uselessly in the tree. How sad a picture that made. I picked up the jar and put it on the table to try and repair it later on. After dinner we noticed several squirrels sitting on the table eating the seed. The kids thought it was cute but all I could think of was that squirrel butts were sitting where we put our food.
The next morning I opened the blinds and discovered that the squirrels must have gotten mad when the seed was gone. There was glass *everywhere*! Stupid @##%^Q!#! squirrels. I was disappointed at the loss of the feeder for my son's sake but now there was broken glass all over the patio. I've cleaned it up but am leary about broken shards remaining and getting stuck in little toes and feet. Hence, I insist the kids wear their shoes at all times when outside. They get aggravated when they're swimming in the wading pool but I figure some grumbling is better than trying to fish glass out of raw flesh.
To the squirrels -- thanks a lot. NOT! This is an open invitation to find a new place to play.
I've seen only one black squirrel in all of my town since I've been here; approx. 20 years. I used to see them frequently in the neighboring county where I grew up.
There are also albino squirrels with pink eyes. Pretty freaky looking, if you ask me. Apparently, there are also white non-albino squirrels which are not as white as their albino cousins, as well as red squirrels in England.
Squirrels like to chew on things to hone their ever-growing teeth. I guess that explains why they chewed holes in my plastic trash can lid. Aside from the obvious reason of getting at what's inside said trash can.
They are members of the rodent family which I feel makes them no better than their rat cousins. Even if they are cuter and their tails are fluffier. There is one picture on Wikipedia of a squirrel in Washington, DC that's the fattest squirrel I've ever seen. I guess not only people can benefit from the largess of the Nation's Capitol.
When I was about twelve, a squirrel started hanging around my grandparents yard. We stupidly started feeding it. The squirrel's favorite snack was not - surprise - nuts but dog treats. Specifically, "People Treats." I don't know if they still make these as a couple decades have passed since I was 12 but they were brightly colored dog treats in the shape of people such as mail men. Hence the name People Treats. The squirrel became very brazen and would climb up on the trash can and knock on the kitchen window for treats and attention. We stopped feeding it when it climbed up my arm. I guess it mistook my twig-like arm for a tree branch.
Earlier this year, we began having a problem with squirrels in our trash. Seeing as how we'd lost several lids on windy days, this was a real problem. However, it became a larger problem when they chewed a hole in the top of the only lidded can we had so they could get in the trash. I had know idea squirrels were such scavengers. Raccoons, yes. Squirrels, no.
We discovered that the squirrels had built a nest in the partially-finished ceiling of our carport. DH had a friend come and help him take the ceiling to discover a squirrel city condo going on up there. I'd like to say that that got rid of our squirrel problem but there were about 5-6 having a pow-wow in our yard today. Maybe it was the first day of summer camp.
My son received a bird feeder for Christmas from my uncle. It was a craft at some sort of event that involved wood, nails, glue and a humongous glass mason jar. It was very cute and recently we decided to hang it up in a tree for the birds, knowing that it would have been more useful in winter when food is scarce. I knew the squirrels would probably eat most of the food anyhow so whatever.
After two days, the *(^!#!%^^ squirrels had ripped the thing apart. The bottom half, including glass jar, was lying upended on the ground with seed scattered. The roof remained hanging uselessly in the tree. How sad a picture that made. I picked up the jar and put it on the table to try and repair it later on. After dinner we noticed several squirrels sitting on the table eating the seed. The kids thought it was cute but all I could think of was that squirrel butts were sitting where we put our food.
The next morning I opened the blinds and discovered that the squirrels must have gotten mad when the seed was gone. There was glass *everywhere*! Stupid @##%^Q!#! squirrels. I was disappointed at the loss of the feeder for my son's sake but now there was broken glass all over the patio. I've cleaned it up but am leary about broken shards remaining and getting stuck in little toes and feet. Hence, I insist the kids wear their shoes at all times when outside. They get aggravated when they're swimming in the wading pool but I figure some grumbling is better than trying to fish glass out of raw flesh.
To the squirrels -- thanks a lot. NOT! This is an open invitation to find a new place to play.
Friday, June 6, 2008
Summer Vacation Part II
So, we survived the first week. Tried to stay somewhat on schedule.
Highlights are the freakish storm Wednesday. Downed trees and limbs everywhere. Thursday the power went out around 1-ish after our trip to the library. P's mother picked her up early so I took the little girls to my dad's for the night.
So nice not to be care-taking two toddlers. I've really enjoyed my time with my older two. We ran some errands, picked up by 2 week old nephew for a visit while his mom rested, enjoyed pizza lunch and Rita's.
Tonight I'm meeting to help plan a World Walk for Breastfeeding Celebration planned for August 3 I believe at the Sykesville Fire Station. On a breastfeeding note, I'm sick of pumping. I can see now how much milk C is still drinking from me which is a lot more than the other two did at this stage. It's okay in general but when she's away for any length of time, I need to pump. And then what to do with the pumped milk? It's not like I need to stockpile any longer. I think I'll give it to her at meal times. There's over 23 ounces and I'm not just throwing it out!
They'll be back this evening. I sure do miss them especially after spending time with Baby D. Almost makes me want another.
Almost...
Highlights are the freakish storm Wednesday. Downed trees and limbs everywhere. Thursday the power went out around 1-ish after our trip to the library. P's mother picked her up early so I took the little girls to my dad's for the night.
So nice not to be care-taking two toddlers. I've really enjoyed my time with my older two. We ran some errands, picked up by 2 week old nephew for a visit while his mom rested, enjoyed pizza lunch and Rita's.
Tonight I'm meeting to help plan a World Walk for Breastfeeding Celebration planned for August 3 I believe at the Sykesville Fire Station. On a breastfeeding note, I'm sick of pumping. I can see now how much milk C is still drinking from me which is a lot more than the other two did at this stage. It's okay in general but when she's away for any length of time, I need to pump. And then what to do with the pumped milk? It's not like I need to stockpile any longer. I think I'll give it to her at meal times. There's over 23 ounces and I'm not just throwing it out!
They'll be back this evening. I sure do miss them especially after spending time with Baby D. Almost makes me want another.
Almost...
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Summer Vacation Part 1
So far so good. We have a loose schedule so we're having fun and getting things done here and there.
P is her for this week and next so that is nice. I'll miss her when she's gone but without any babysitting this summer, we'll have the freedom to pick up and go at will. I will miss having a paycheck, though.
Funny things kids say: Mia's been talking about "Handsome" and Gretel today!
Matthew had his first official ortho appointment yesterday. They took molds and pictures of his teeth. We go back on the 24th, I think, to discuss the treatment options based on what comes back with his molds and pictures.
Our house is finally back in order. I'm working on putting away the last box of desk stuff. We still have things under the house that need to be sorted through and put away again. That's mostly just reorganization of stuff that should have already been done.
Supposed to have DN on Friday to give them a break since mom is ailing. Looking forward to that but sad that they're having such a rough road right now. Sending prayers that everyone is up to par soon!
P is her for this week and next so that is nice. I'll miss her when she's gone but without any babysitting this summer, we'll have the freedom to pick up and go at will. I will miss having a paycheck, though.
Funny things kids say: Mia's been talking about "Handsome" and Gretel today!
Matthew had his first official ortho appointment yesterday. They took molds and pictures of his teeth. We go back on the 24th, I think, to discuss the treatment options based on what comes back with his molds and pictures.
Our house is finally back in order. I'm working on putting away the last box of desk stuff. We still have things under the house that need to be sorted through and put away again. That's mostly just reorganization of stuff that should have already been done.
Supposed to have DN on Friday to give them a break since mom is ailing. Looking forward to that but sad that they're having such a rough road right now. Sending prayers that everyone is up to par soon!
Friday, May 30, 2008
Last Day of School!
Well, that ubiquitous time has come again. The last day of school. It seems so far away and abstract in the middle of August when school begins for my biggies. Then we get through the winter holidays. Then the spring holidays. Then all of a sudden, we're putting end of the year activities on our calendar such as the annual Strawberry Festival, Adventure Club Investiture, Piano Recital, Fun Day which consisted of a zoo trip this year.
The end of the year always seems to come so fast for me as a mom. Although, I do recall as a child that those last few weeks draaaaaged endlessly LOL! My son has been waiting not too patiently and I couldn't get Madison out of bed this morning. At least it's the last one!
They came home with all their school stuff yesterday. I always forget about this part. The bits and bobs that helped them learn and grow throughout the year, finished art projects, journals, graded papers and just trash and bits of toys and junk they collected over the months.
It will be nice to kick back and relax. Summer plans include trips to the library, Rita's, pool, Grandma and Grandpa Q's camper and house, Granny and Pop Pop's house near the ocean, various playgrounds and hopefully a couple short trips to PA and VA to visit family and amusement parks. Play dates, of course and lots of time outside when the weather cooperates.
Last year at this time I was petrified because I had a new baby and was going to be home all summer with four children. It turned out to be a nice summer and I'm really looking forward to it this year. I think the kids will really entertain each other (and fight LOL) so perhaps I can do a few of my own things. Plus I can send them all to the grandparents for a couple days at a time and get some much-needed mommy time.
I plan to have a loose schedule that they can help devise that includes some learning time with their workbooks, arty time, outside time, reading, quiet/rest time, tv, games/computer and the like. I'm afraid if I don't do that then we'll all just sit around loafing. I need to be proactive and keep a bit of a schedule and plan weekly outings.
I also want them to learn two skills this summer. One of my choose which includes Madison learning to tie her shoes and Matthew learning how to fold and put away his laundry. I want them to pick their second learning goal themselves. Matthew's piano teacher is offering summer lessons this year but I told him he could take the summer off if he chooses. I think everyone is ready for a break!
Here are their school pictures. I never intended to buy the spring pictures but they came out so nicely how could I not. And how could I tell my children that I wasn't going to buy their pictures after they sent the package home in book bags. Those picture people are squirrly!
Happy Summer, everyone!
The end of the year always seems to come so fast for me as a mom. Although, I do recall as a child that those last few weeks draaaaaged endlessly LOL! My son has been waiting not too patiently and I couldn't get Madison out of bed this morning. At least it's the last one!
They came home with all their school stuff yesterday. I always forget about this part. The bits and bobs that helped them learn and grow throughout the year, finished art projects, journals, graded papers and just trash and bits of toys and junk they collected over the months.
It will be nice to kick back and relax. Summer plans include trips to the library, Rita's, pool, Grandma and Grandpa Q's camper and house, Granny and Pop Pop's house near the ocean, various playgrounds and hopefully a couple short trips to PA and VA to visit family and amusement parks. Play dates, of course and lots of time outside when the weather cooperates.
Last year at this time I was petrified because I had a new baby and was going to be home all summer with four children. It turned out to be a nice summer and I'm really looking forward to it this year. I think the kids will really entertain each other (and fight LOL) so perhaps I can do a few of my own things. Plus I can send them all to the grandparents for a couple days at a time and get some much-needed mommy time.
I plan to have a loose schedule that they can help devise that includes some learning time with their workbooks, arty time, outside time, reading, quiet/rest time, tv, games/computer and the like. I'm afraid if I don't do that then we'll all just sit around loafing. I need to be proactive and keep a bit of a schedule and plan weekly outings.
I also want them to learn two skills this summer. One of my choose which includes Madison learning to tie her shoes and Matthew learning how to fold and put away his laundry. I want them to pick their second learning goal themselves. Matthew's piano teacher is offering summer lessons this year but I told him he could take the summer off if he chooses. I think everyone is ready for a break!
Here are their school pictures. I never intended to buy the spring pictures but they came out so nicely how could I not. And how could I tell my children that I wasn't going to buy their pictures after they sent the package home in book bags. Those picture people are squirrly!
Happy Summer, everyone!
Monday, May 5, 2008
The Great Flood
We had a very interesting week of last. Tuesday we had some new tile laid in the kitchen, about 75% of it. It wasn't anything special, just some cheapy peel and stick to have a nicer looking floor for C's birthday party on Sunday.
DH came to bed about midnight. I was up off and on with the baby because she was sick. About 2:30 I went to get a drink of water and heard a strange hissing noise from the kitchen. It sounded like the ice maker when it fills the tray only louder. Turns out the water line to the ice maker snapped clean and was dumping water for a couple hours.
Water everywhere on two floors of our home! Two hours before dh had to leave on an overnight business trip! Oy!! We spent about an hour cleaning up and dh making some phone calls. I went back to bed but it took quite some time to get to sleep. DH delayed his flight and came back the same night.
We had water restoration people here for six hours. We have eleven blowers and two gigantic dehumidifiers going. It got really hot in here but they said that means it's working. So now it's cooling off so I suppose the drying process is near complete. I can't wait to get the equipment out of here.
They were supposed to return this morning but were running late and I couldn't wait. Now they are scheduled to come tomorrow. Damage includes flooring and a removed wall in the kitchen, carpet in the den, pad, drywall and ceiling in the basement along with some other holes cut into the drywall. All in all, we didn't lose much personal property so that was good. We'll see how the estimation and repairs go.
A couple pictures to remember our flood.
DH came to bed about midnight. I was up off and on with the baby because she was sick. About 2:30 I went to get a drink of water and heard a strange hissing noise from the kitchen. It sounded like the ice maker when it fills the tray only louder. Turns out the water line to the ice maker snapped clean and was dumping water for a couple hours.
Water everywhere on two floors of our home! Two hours before dh had to leave on an overnight business trip! Oy!! We spent about an hour cleaning up and dh making some phone calls. I went back to bed but it took quite some time to get to sleep. DH delayed his flight and came back the same night.
We had water restoration people here for six hours. We have eleven blowers and two gigantic dehumidifiers going. It got really hot in here but they said that means it's working. So now it's cooling off so I suppose the drying process is near complete. I can't wait to get the equipment out of here.
They were supposed to return this morning but were running late and I couldn't wait. Now they are scheduled to come tomorrow. Damage includes flooring and a removed wall in the kitchen, carpet in the den, pad, drywall and ceiling in the basement along with some other holes cut into the drywall. All in all, we didn't lose much personal property so that was good. We'll see how the estimation and repairs go.
A couple pictures to remember our flood.
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Wednesday
Sometimes I like to do this to remind myself of how much I actually do in a day, even when it seems I get nothing accomplished!
Nurse C
Shower
Breakfast
Whiney preschooler and infant
Answer breastfeeding questions
Scan emails/boards
Start blog ;)
Make Home Depot list and discuss w/ dh
Fruit salad for LLL
Rescue baby from preschooler
Make snack for preschooler
Dress baby
Dress preschooler
Get myself ready to leave house
Attended LLL in EB and helped
Changed diapers x2
Helped w/ potty x3
Made lunch
Nursed baby x5
Ate lunch
Update calendar
Work on layout
Clean up and sooth bleeding baby
Work on banking basket
Make snack
Go to hardware store
pick up recycling trash
Pick up kids at school and drop off carpool student
collect and go through Mail
Go through backpacks
Oversee homework/piano practice
Afterschool snacks
finish Cleaning fridge and put back together
balance bank accounts x5
Fix and serve dinner
Feed the baby
Take a walk
Played two hands of Uno w/ M
Two baths (biggies)
Read some LLL stuff
Okay, that's it. I'm going to bed soon. Tuck the kiddos in, do my Bible study, crossword, read for LLL and catch some TV.
Is that enough for one day? Tomorrow is bring your child to work day. The kids are going to spend each a half day with each parent. DH - goodness I love him! He was concerned that the kids didn't appreciate that what I do around here is my job, i.e. work. They still don't get it, but I'll enjoy me some slave labor tomorrow :D
Nurse C
Shower
Breakfast
Whiney preschooler and infant
Answer breastfeeding questions
Scan emails/boards
Start blog ;)
Make Home Depot list and discuss w/ dh
Fruit salad for LLL
Rescue baby from preschooler
Make snack for preschooler
Dress baby
Dress preschooler
Get myself ready to leave house
Attended LLL in EB and helped
Changed diapers x2
Helped w/ potty x3
Made lunch
Nursed baby x5
Ate lunch
Update calendar
Work on layout
Clean up and sooth bleeding baby
Work on banking basket
Make snack
Go to hardware store
pick up recycling trash
Pick up kids at school and drop off carpool student
collect and go through Mail
Go through backpacks
Oversee homework/piano practice
Afterschool snacks
finish Cleaning fridge and put back together
balance bank accounts x5
Fix and serve dinner
Feed the baby
Take a walk
Played two hands of Uno w/ M
Two baths (biggies)
Read some LLL stuff
Okay, that's it. I'm going to bed soon. Tuck the kiddos in, do my Bible study, crossword, read for LLL and catch some TV.
Is that enough for one day? Tomorrow is bring your child to work day. The kids are going to spend each a half day with each parent. DH - goodness I love him! He was concerned that the kids didn't appreciate that what I do around here is my job, i.e. work. They still don't get it, but I'll enjoy me some slave labor tomorrow :D
Saturday, April 12, 2008
New Creation
Jeez it's hot today! Okay, so it's in the 70's. However, our a/c appears to be on the fritz and it's 81 in the house. Feels cooler outside. Think I'll take the kids out after dinner.
My new digi class began a couple weeks ago. It's called Digi in Deep and it's hosted/created by Jessica Sprague So, I'm currently on Day 4, which is the first Thursday. Today I received Day 13 email LOL! I'm so far behind. In my favor, Lesson 1 had 10 parts so it took me longer to finish. Also, each part was a bit complicated. We're really exploring some of the features of Photoshop and it's so cool.
On Day 4, the lessons are called "Cre8" and it involves making 8 pages with a common theme; a mini-album, if you will. The assignment was to make eight pages using a specific set of materials and each page was to contain a quote of some sort, instead of a photo. This project scared me but it's only 6x6 and I actually decided to do mine of meaningful Bible quotes like: Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. So, I'm excited about that. I made the cover page and one inside page thus far. I'll post when I'm done with it. Hopefully, I'll get somewhat caught up before the end of class. It's a four week class.
They're also doing an organizational class for ACDSee which I hope to take but that will have to be later this summer or whenever they have it again. An additional task this go around is to do something inspirational and then either use the scrapbooking technique or create a layout about it or do it. I chose organizing my photos on the computer. We'll see if I get that done, as well LOL!
I mean, I can't even keep my blog up to date, even though I think of stuff all the time. Too bad there's not mental telepathy into your computer. I'd have blog entries every day haha!
Well, I don't know where the toolbar is right now for posting pictures. Will come back later.
My new digi class began a couple weeks ago. It's called Digi in Deep and it's hosted/created by Jessica Sprague So, I'm currently on Day 4, which is the first Thursday. Today I received Day 13 email LOL! I'm so far behind. In my favor, Lesson 1 had 10 parts so it took me longer to finish. Also, each part was a bit complicated. We're really exploring some of the features of Photoshop and it's so cool.
On Day 4, the lessons are called "Cre8" and it involves making 8 pages with a common theme; a mini-album, if you will. The assignment was to make eight pages using a specific set of materials and each page was to contain a quote of some sort, instead of a photo. This project scared me but it's only 6x6 and I actually decided to do mine of meaningful Bible quotes like: Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. So, I'm excited about that. I made the cover page and one inside page thus far. I'll post when I'm done with it. Hopefully, I'll get somewhat caught up before the end of class. It's a four week class.
They're also doing an organizational class for ACDSee which I hope to take but that will have to be later this summer or whenever they have it again. An additional task this go around is to do something inspirational and then either use the scrapbooking technique or create a layout about it or do it. I chose organizing my photos on the computer. We'll see if I get that done, as well LOL!
I mean, I can't even keep my blog up to date, even though I think of stuff all the time. Too bad there's not mental telepathy into your computer. I'd have blog entries every day haha!
Well, I don't know where the toolbar is right now for posting pictures. Will come back later.
Monday, March 10, 2008
The Pact
I love to read. I've been hoarding books from freecycle like I have all this time to read. Recently I picked up a Jodi Picoult book called The Pact - A Love Story. I was roped in right from the very beginning. I really liked the writing style and the story was easy to read and follow for the most part.
I'm used to reading fiction and novels that don't require much brain power to follow. A lot of times I'm reading before bed to relax so not always in tune to a complex story line or subject.
I found myself picking up this book more and more other times and bringing it with me in the car for reading while waiting in lines and such. I sped through it pretty quickly. It was easy to read but due to the subject matter, it was not an easy read. It really started to get under my skin in a thoughtful way and caused me to dig deep and think. I don't usually have this reaction to books.
It was sort of refreshing to spend some time thinking of a book as it relates to my personal self/family instead of just thinking wow that was a good book. This particular book centered around two teenagers and their families and dealt with teen suicide.
I've really started to think about the time when my children are teenagers and how we will all relate with one another and as a family. I didn't feel comfortable being open with my mother and as a result don't feel especially close to her these days. I want a much closer relationship with my own children and want them to know they can come to us anytime they need for whatever reason.
I don't want one of my children to go through an earth-shattering experience and not be able to find solace and comfort in my arms as they did as babies/small children. I want them to always know that their foundation is built at home and as such they can be open and find solutions here rather than outside or depending only on themselves. I don't ever want to say, "I had no idea" or "I never saw that coming."
With everything in the world today, it must be a real challenge staying connected to a teen. It's very scary to me to think about, especially with some of the personalities of my children. In my uneducated opinion, I would think it's a combination of parenting and the child themselves. I pray that as I go through each day with my children, that I'm building that close foundation stone by stone and not pushing them away by eroding something bit by bit. Perhaps it's not something you really know until later on.
I have always strived, at least mentally, to be that better mother to my children. I know it doesn't always come through but after reading this book, I really consider my actions/words before acting upon them more more than I did before reading this book. My thought is "Is this going to uplift them or undermine them?" When they are grown will they come back and say, "Remember that time ... that's what the root of it all."
I'm far from the perfect parent and some days, I just don't have it in me to consider every single action or word. Also, it's so easy to over-analyze everything and then be unable to do anything. But when it comes to some of the fundamental or big issues such as ethics, safety, love, etc. I try to really focus on what my response should be.
Last night Matthew asked me why God made him. My automatic, without thinking, response was I had no idea. But really I did have an idea after I thought for a minute. I told Matthew that God has a special work for him on this earth, some of which he began when he was an infant. Really it began upon conception. I don't know what the future brings for him or any of my other children, but they're pretty special in my book and I have the awesome privilege of guiding them through life. It's a heady responsibility but I can't imagine it any other way.
I'm used to reading fiction and novels that don't require much brain power to follow. A lot of times I'm reading before bed to relax so not always in tune to a complex story line or subject.
I found myself picking up this book more and more other times and bringing it with me in the car for reading while waiting in lines and such. I sped through it pretty quickly. It was easy to read but due to the subject matter, it was not an easy read. It really started to get under my skin in a thoughtful way and caused me to dig deep and think. I don't usually have this reaction to books.
It was sort of refreshing to spend some time thinking of a book as it relates to my personal self/family instead of just thinking wow that was a good book. This particular book centered around two teenagers and their families and dealt with teen suicide.
I've really started to think about the time when my children are teenagers and how we will all relate with one another and as a family. I didn't feel comfortable being open with my mother and as a result don't feel especially close to her these days. I want a much closer relationship with my own children and want them to know they can come to us anytime they need for whatever reason.
I don't want one of my children to go through an earth-shattering experience and not be able to find solace and comfort in my arms as they did as babies/small children. I want them to always know that their foundation is built at home and as such they can be open and find solutions here rather than outside or depending only on themselves. I don't ever want to say, "I had no idea" or "I never saw that coming."
With everything in the world today, it must be a real challenge staying connected to a teen. It's very scary to me to think about, especially with some of the personalities of my children. In my uneducated opinion, I would think it's a combination of parenting and the child themselves. I pray that as I go through each day with my children, that I'm building that close foundation stone by stone and not pushing them away by eroding something bit by bit. Perhaps it's not something you really know until later on.
I have always strived, at least mentally, to be that better mother to my children. I know it doesn't always come through but after reading this book, I really consider my actions/words before acting upon them more more than I did before reading this book. My thought is "Is this going to uplift them or undermine them?" When they are grown will they come back and say, "Remember that time ... that's what the root of it all."
I'm far from the perfect parent and some days, I just don't have it in me to consider every single action or word. Also, it's so easy to over-analyze everything and then be unable to do anything. But when it comes to some of the fundamental or big issues such as ethics, safety, love, etc. I try to really focus on what my response should be.
Last night Matthew asked me why God made him. My automatic, without thinking, response was I had no idea. But really I did have an idea after I thought for a minute. I told Matthew that God has a special work for him on this earth, some of which he began when he was an infant. Really it began upon conception. I don't know what the future brings for him or any of my other children, but they're pretty special in my book and I have the awesome privilege of guiding them through life. It's a heady responsibility but I can't imagine it any other way.
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Snow Day!
Friday was a snow day. I had mixed feelings but it turned out to be a pretty descent day. No babysitting kids so I could get up at my leisure of sorts. The kids were up so I tried to grab a shower before dh left for the day.
Madison and I sat down and read a book together called Fish Out of Water. It was ala Dr. Suess style of sorts but didn't really rhyme. I would read a page and then she would read a page. She did very well. Then we did three or so pages of math and finished up a packet from two weeks ago. Now we can start on last week's packet.
Charlotte took descent naps. Around lunch time I decided we needed a feel trip to Chick-fil-A for lunch. We went through the drive-thru and came home so the kids could "picnic" in the living room. After that we picked up a bit and after that the timing got a big hazy.
We made homemade microwave popcorn thanks to this recipe at www.allrecipes.com I found this on Angry Chicken blog. Got some good stuff there. The kids really enjoyed making the popcorn and I presume it is that much healthier than the store-bought type.
Then I helped Matthew with his "I am God's Kid" poster. We can finish that tomorrow and then work on his other God's Kid projects and his book report which is due around the 27th. Which reminds me I forgot to get the poster board. Darn.
While the kids watched television, ate popcorn and drank hot cocoa, I finished the girls' sundresses. I'm pleased as punch with them and will post pictures with my sewing a sundress entry coming later.
We had sandwhiches for dinner and dh got home in time to take them to church. He took all four but the older two went for Adventure Club to make sandwhiches which the Pathfinders were taking out to distribute in the city this afternoon.
It was a nice lazy day and I really enjoyed spending some time with them one-on-one.
Madison and I sat down and read a book together called Fish Out of Water. It was ala Dr. Suess style of sorts but didn't really rhyme. I would read a page and then she would read a page. She did very well. Then we did three or so pages of math and finished up a packet from two weeks ago. Now we can start on last week's packet.
Charlotte took descent naps. Around lunch time I decided we needed a feel trip to Chick-fil-A for lunch. We went through the drive-thru and came home so the kids could "picnic" in the living room. After that we picked up a bit and after that the timing got a big hazy.
We made homemade microwave popcorn thanks to this recipe at www.allrecipes.com I found this on Angry Chicken blog. Got some good stuff there. The kids really enjoyed making the popcorn and I presume it is that much healthier than the store-bought type.
Then I helped Matthew with his "I am God's Kid" poster. We can finish that tomorrow and then work on his other God's Kid projects and his book report which is due around the 27th. Which reminds me I forgot to get the poster board. Darn.
While the kids watched television, ate popcorn and drank hot cocoa, I finished the girls' sundresses. I'm pleased as punch with them and will post pictures with my sewing a sundress entry coming later.
We had sandwhiches for dinner and dh got home in time to take them to church. He took all four but the older two went for Adventure Club to make sandwhiches which the Pathfinders were taking out to distribute in the city this afternoon.
It was a nice lazy day and I really enjoyed spending some time with them one-on-one.
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Doctor, Doctor
Give me the news. I've got a bad case of ... visiting you!
One of the things they don't tell you is that the more children you have the more often you visit the doctor. Also, the older you get the more you visit the doctor.
I remember back in the day when I would visit the doctor once, maybe twice a year. Now we're at some sort of doctor at least once a month, or so it seems.
When I was pregnant with C, between the diabetes, AMA and general visits, I was going to the doctor one to two times a week at the end of my pregnancy. Good gravy, I never wanted to see a doctor again. Not to mention most of the appointments were down in the city and required me to pay for parking.
Now, it's just other stuff. So far this year:
January - one well child check up
February - one well baby check up, one physical
March - two well children check ups
April - one child's allergy
May - one well child check up, one child dermatology
That's almost $200 in co-pays right there. Too bad the medical threshold is a tad too high. We'd probably qualify. I think we qualify for 2007 though with the delivery and subsequent hospital stay.
So, if we all stay healthy, hopefully that'll be it for now. Aside from the fact that I need to get my hip check out, the skin spot as well as my hearing. Can't wait to get this all out of the way.
One of the things they don't tell you is that the more children you have the more often you visit the doctor. Also, the older you get the more you visit the doctor.
I remember back in the day when I would visit the doctor once, maybe twice a year. Now we're at some sort of doctor at least once a month, or so it seems.
When I was pregnant with C, between the diabetes, AMA and general visits, I was going to the doctor one to two times a week at the end of my pregnancy. Good gravy, I never wanted to see a doctor again. Not to mention most of the appointments were down in the city and required me to pay for parking.
Now, it's just other stuff. So far this year:
January - one well child check up
February - one well baby check up, one physical
March - two well children check ups
April - one child's allergy
May - one well child check up, one child dermatology
That's almost $200 in co-pays right there. Too bad the medical threshold is a tad too high. We'd probably qualify. I think we qualify for 2007 though with the delivery and subsequent hospital stay.
So, if we all stay healthy, hopefully that'll be it for now. Aside from the fact that I need to get my hip check out, the skin spot as well as my hearing. Can't wait to get this all out of the way.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Diary of a Sundress
I was walking through JoAnn's one evening after Karate class looking for some clear thread in order to sew patches on the honor sashes without needing to constantly change thread color. My friend J kindly told me about this rather clever invention.
On the way through the fabric section I saw something that stopped me in my tracks. Sundress material. And not just any material, but it already had the rouching and came in such cute patterns. Really, the only sewing that would need to be done is for a side seam, a bottom hem and some sort of shoulder strap.
BINGO!
The perfect project for this sewing novice. The store was getting ready to close and I wasn't in a frame of mood to actually shop for sewing projects so I vowed to come back. Frankly, I never thought I'd make it back because I do that a lot!
On a whim, I decided to return to JoAnn's while Madison was at a birthday party. It was excellent being out alone. I was somewhat overwhelmed in the pattern department so I skipped that but came home with the black and white polka dot fabric with red ladybugs and red 1/8" grosgrain ribbon for shoulder straps.
I washed my fabric and was ready to go. But my fabric wasn't. Either I didn't buy enough or it shrunk more than I expected but in any event, I no longer had enough for two dresses. So when I had a chance, back to JoAnn's I went for an additional piece. I was prepared this time. Brought it home and washed it right up. From there, I began working on Madison's dress.
I wasn't sure whether to sew the side seam or the hem first. I sort of thought perhaps it didn't matter as long as both got done but then I wondered if there was a proper order to ensure a nice outcome. After some research I found out to do the side seam first. After working with Madison's dress I began to think sewing was over-rated. I hate getting poked with pins. Ouch!
After some trial and error, I finished the side seam and hem. I worked with the 1/8" red gosgrain ribbon I had purchased for the straps at the recommendation of the counter lady. What a mistake. I had a really hard time working with that ribbon. It was difficult to tie and it didn't stay up on Madison's shoulders. I made the difficult decision to stop and get some different ribbon.
I returned to JoAnn's for a third time! After some careful searching, I found the perfect black ribbon with white polka dots and it was much broader. I was giddy with excitement! Back home. Fast forward a few days to snow day Friday which was really just some ice that melted by lunch time. I spent untold time taking out the red ribbons with my hand seam ripper and sewed on the new straps.
Voila! Instant sundress. So cute! Madison loved it and I must say the shoulder straps looked marvelous and fit so nicely. She wouldn't take the dress off LOL! I ran back to the kitchen to start Mia's. Hers went much faster and I was really pleased with the outcome. It's rather too long but I didn't want to reconstruct the entire thing. I figure she'll grow a bit before spring and perhaps she can wear it next year as well. I rolled the entire hem so I can let it out later.
So a lot of time, effort and a bit more $ than I intended to spend but the girls are happy and so am I. I do believe I'm going to go back and buy another amount of the blue fabric which has flowers and butterflies and make two more. I'm thinking of making a third for the baby but I haven't quite decided yet.
The Replacements
So, if my life were a mini-drama right now, it would be called the replacements. So many things are breaking down I don't know what's coming next.
First, the mouse stopped working. One night I stayed up late into the evening working on checking account stuff and it worked fine all night. Well, okay, so it didn't actually work fine. It had been sort of wonky for several days which I contributed to battery issues and replaced them. However, I did notice there was some battery leakage, but hey it still worked so it was all good, right?
Apparently, it wasn't. When dh tried to use the computer the next morning it was a no go unless you happen to know all the keyboard shortcuts. Which we don't.
So we hurried up and got a new mouse. Can't run a home without a functioning computer in my view!
I think that was a Sunday or so. Fast forward to Friday. At 5:30 am the alarm starts to sound. DH does his usual snooze thing. After a while I open my eyes as it looks rather bright and it's about 7a. DH usually has the kids out the door on the way to school about 8a so this was not good. I do believe they made it on time.
The big problem was that the power went out sometime after the alarm started sounding. It's like the coldest day of the year and we have absolutely NO power. BGE claimed it would be back around 10:30. So I trucked off to the LLL Breastfeeding cafe with the little girls. After spending 45 minutes trying to find it, I give up and head to the mall. I stopped at home quickly first to see if the lights were on. No and the BGE truck didn't appear to have any activity around it.
Long story short, the electricity came back around 2ish however, the computer monitor didn't come on. Oy! Again, computer problems. This time I had a typing job that was due so this was not good news at all. This was also the reason I couldn't find the breastfeeding cafe which was at a new location. I couldn't remember the name of it and I couldn't look it up on line or check my email LOL! That'll show me to wait until the last minute.
A lovely friend has loaned us her old monitor. We went from a nice, streamlined flat screen model to the old honking huge style. I have NO room on my desk to work which is *really* irritating but it's really nice having a monitor at all. We'll probably just end up replacing the computer soon. Perhaps when we get our surplus from the government. Sometimes it's a real benefit to have four children.
Next the following weekend the dishwasher wouldn't turn on. So we did an extensive search for a new dishwasher. Several days later we had one all picked out and then the oven went out. So I revamped my search for two new appliances.
Now this was very exciting because other than a new washer several years ago we have not had any new appliances. Who knew you could get so excited over appliances? It will be so nice to cook a meal properly without under or over cooking it. It will be just as nice to open the dishwasher and take out clean dishes rather than dirty ones.
Those should arrive next Wednesday.
The van's been in the shop as well. I was stuck without it for two days last week. That was a real joy. Hopefully that will be in good repair for a while. In the meantime, DH's interior driver-side door handle snapped off a couple weeks ago. You either have to climb over to the passenger side to get out or you can lower the window and open from the outside. However, this means you have to keep the car running. I find it a complete pain the rear and try to avoid using it at this time. I don't know how he stands it LOL!
So, now I just wait for another shoe to fall. Between stuff breaking down and all the doctor visits it's a wonder we're not in the poor house right now. Awfully close but still hanging by a string.
First, the mouse stopped working. One night I stayed up late into the evening working on checking account stuff and it worked fine all night. Well, okay, so it didn't actually work fine. It had been sort of wonky for several days which I contributed to battery issues and replaced them. However, I did notice there was some battery leakage, but hey it still worked so it was all good, right?
Apparently, it wasn't. When dh tried to use the computer the next morning it was a no go unless you happen to know all the keyboard shortcuts. Which we don't.
So we hurried up and got a new mouse. Can't run a home without a functioning computer in my view!
I think that was a Sunday or so. Fast forward to Friday. At 5:30 am the alarm starts to sound. DH does his usual snooze thing. After a while I open my eyes as it looks rather bright and it's about 7a. DH usually has the kids out the door on the way to school about 8a so this was not good. I do believe they made it on time.
The big problem was that the power went out sometime after the alarm started sounding. It's like the coldest day of the year and we have absolutely NO power. BGE claimed it would be back around 10:30. So I trucked off to the LLL Breastfeeding cafe with the little girls. After spending 45 minutes trying to find it, I give up and head to the mall. I stopped at home quickly first to see if the lights were on. No and the BGE truck didn't appear to have any activity around it.
Long story short, the electricity came back around 2ish however, the computer monitor didn't come on. Oy! Again, computer problems. This time I had a typing job that was due so this was not good news at all. This was also the reason I couldn't find the breastfeeding cafe which was at a new location. I couldn't remember the name of it and I couldn't look it up on line or check my email LOL! That'll show me to wait until the last minute.
A lovely friend has loaned us her old monitor. We went from a nice, streamlined flat screen model to the old honking huge style. I have NO room on my desk to work which is *really* irritating but it's really nice having a monitor at all. We'll probably just end up replacing the computer soon. Perhaps when we get our surplus from the government. Sometimes it's a real benefit to have four children.
Next the following weekend the dishwasher wouldn't turn on. So we did an extensive search for a new dishwasher. Several days later we had one all picked out and then the oven went out. So I revamped my search for two new appliances.
Now this was very exciting because other than a new washer several years ago we have not had any new appliances. Who knew you could get so excited over appliances? It will be so nice to cook a meal properly without under or over cooking it. It will be just as nice to open the dishwasher and take out clean dishes rather than dirty ones.
Those should arrive next Wednesday.
The van's been in the shop as well. I was stuck without it for two days last week. That was a real joy. Hopefully that will be in good repair for a while. In the meantime, DH's interior driver-side door handle snapped off a couple weeks ago. You either have to climb over to the passenger side to get out or you can lower the window and open from the outside. However, this means you have to keep the car running. I find it a complete pain the rear and try to avoid using it at this time. I don't know how he stands it LOL!
So, now I just wait for another shoe to fall. Between stuff breaking down and all the doctor visits it's a wonder we're not in the poor house right now. Awfully close but still hanging by a string.
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Scarydoll
Munchkin got this dolly for her birthday. It's rather cute as long as she's quiet. But when you make her mad, watch out!
Update Time!
So, my daily PT charting didn't work out. But I'm happy to say that my girl wears big girl pants all day now with nary an accident! (did I say that out loud? knock wood!) She did a great job and seemed to pick up where we left off so it wasn't like starting from scratch. Within two or three days, she was 99% initiating potty time herself. Now she just takes herself off and I just have to follow up on the poopies. I'm so proud of her. Hopefully, she'll start waking up dry and we can do big girl pants at night also. I'm just not up for changing bed clothing in the middle of the night right now.
My big boy got his green belt in shotokon (sp?) Karate last Thursday. I was so proud of him! The class did a bunch of group activities while three Sensi looked on and then they called up different students at different times to demonstrate what they knew. It was really neat but Munchkin was afraid of the loud hus shouting. Luckily, dh showed up so that worked out.
Last week Sissy and Munchkin began ballet at a new studio. Munchkin is in the 3-4 class and loves it. Right now there's 3-4 kids in the class, including one of her little friends so that works out well. Sissy is in Ballet 1 for the first time ever and even do barre work. Someone else we know is in that class as well so it's fun knowing someone at each class. I really like the new dance place.
Charlotte is doing great. She's saying mamamam now and loves the jumparoo and playing on the floor. I haven't been successful at getting her motivated to move yet. Previously, my philosophy had been I can wait on the mobility but I don't want her to be behind either. I'm going to start working with her to at least get the synapsis in her brain going that she's supposed to be doing these things.
I picked up my first real sewing project. JoAnn Fabrics and Crafts had sundress material on sale. I chose a black, white and red ladybug pattern to make matching dresses for the older girls. I hope it goes okay. The rouching is already there so really all you have to do is hem them, sew the vertical seam and add shoulder straps. We'll see how it goes LOL! I post completed pictures.
So to end for now, here's a picture of my newest little ballerina.
My big boy got his green belt in shotokon (sp?) Karate last Thursday. I was so proud of him! The class did a bunch of group activities while three Sensi looked on and then they called up different students at different times to demonstrate what they knew. It was really neat but Munchkin was afraid of the loud hus shouting. Luckily, dh showed up so that worked out.
Last week Sissy and Munchkin began ballet at a new studio. Munchkin is in the 3-4 class and loves it. Right now there's 3-4 kids in the class, including one of her little friends so that works out well. Sissy is in Ballet 1 for the first time ever and even do barre work. Someone else we know is in that class as well so it's fun knowing someone at each class. I really like the new dance place.
Charlotte is doing great. She's saying mamamam now and loves the jumparoo and playing on the floor. I haven't been successful at getting her motivated to move yet. Previously, my philosophy had been I can wait on the mobility but I don't want her to be behind either. I'm going to start working with her to at least get the synapsis in her brain going that she's supposed to be doing these things.
I picked up my first real sewing project. JoAnn Fabrics and Crafts had sundress material on sale. I chose a black, white and red ladybug pattern to make matching dresses for the older girls. I hope it goes okay. The rouching is already there so really all you have to do is hem them, sew the vertical seam and add shoulder straps. We'll see how it goes LOL! I post completed pictures.
So to end for now, here's a picture of my newest little ballerina.
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
PT Day Two
Three to four pees and two accidents. Me thinks we're going the wrong way! H was here so I think perhaps she was too distracted to pay attention to the signs because I know that she knows them. Today is Day Three. So far so good, knock on wood!
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Back in the trenches ...
Potty training, take TWO!
So when Mia was 2, she took a supreme interest in the potty. Too bad I was pregnant and had no energy to foster that.
Now, by mid summer she seemed open to it again so we decided to go for it. We stocked up on panties, training pants, plastic pants and candy corns. We we cold turkey right into panties. I used plastic pants at night and on errands. But my girl did great! We even went to the store in panties alone. She'd have maybe one accident a day, two on a bad day.
Then one day the stomach flu hit our house. It was awful, to say the least. Poor Mia had a horrible case of it and couldn't control anything at all. That was the end of the potty for her. I couldn't even get her to wear her favorite Dora panties. Poor little thing.
Now it's time for take two. I told her over the weekend that on Monday, the day after her birthday, she'd wear panties again. Grandma Lea bought her two matching sets of Dora Panties/undershirts. So yesterday after the grocery store we came home and I cajoled her into panties. Then she put the undershirt on over her regular shirt. Too cute!
She did great and only had one accident. She used the potty without any prompting. Even the first time. She said, oh I have to go potty and did. She did want to put on her pull ups after her accident so I put them up. We'll use them for night time until such time as she gets closer to being more dry at night. I know we should go cold turkey for nights as well but I really can't get up in the middle of the night to change wet sheets, pants and nurse a baby on top of it.
On a side note, Mia has been sleeping all night in her bed more and more these days. Kind of makes me sad because she's snuggily with invading your space. However, our bed is too small for that many sleepers and it's a good thing for her. She even goes to sleep on her own without someone laying down with her. Woohoo!
Next stop the baby LOL! Keep up the good work Mia, my beautiful birthday girl.
So when Mia was 2, she took a supreme interest in the potty. Too bad I was pregnant and had no energy to foster that.
Now, by mid summer she seemed open to it again so we decided to go for it. We stocked up on panties, training pants, plastic pants and candy corns. We we cold turkey right into panties. I used plastic pants at night and on errands. But my girl did great! We even went to the store in panties alone. She'd have maybe one accident a day, two on a bad day.
Then one day the stomach flu hit our house. It was awful, to say the least. Poor Mia had a horrible case of it and couldn't control anything at all. That was the end of the potty for her. I couldn't even get her to wear her favorite Dora panties. Poor little thing.
Now it's time for take two. I told her over the weekend that on Monday, the day after her birthday, she'd wear panties again. Grandma Lea bought her two matching sets of Dora Panties/undershirts. So yesterday after the grocery store we came home and I cajoled her into panties. Then she put the undershirt on over her regular shirt. Too cute!
She did great and only had one accident. She used the potty without any prompting. Even the first time. She said, oh I have to go potty and did. She did want to put on her pull ups after her accident so I put them up. We'll use them for night time until such time as she gets closer to being more dry at night. I know we should go cold turkey for nights as well but I really can't get up in the middle of the night to change wet sheets, pants and nurse a baby on top of it.
On a side note, Mia has been sleeping all night in her bed more and more these days. Kind of makes me sad because she's snuggily with invading your space. However, our bed is too small for that many sleepers and it's a good thing for her. She even goes to sleep on her own without someone laying down with her. Woohoo!
Next stop the baby LOL! Keep up the good work Mia, my beautiful birthday girl.
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Tough times in Matthew's class
A bit after we had gotten home from school this afternoon, Matthew volunteered some shocking information.
He has a classmate D and several months ago he mentioned that her mother was sick, although, he didn't seem to know what was wrong with her. I filed it in the back of my mind and didn't think much of it since then.
Today he said that D's mother died last night. I was so shocked and saddened. How cruel to lose your mother at eight years old. I called his teacher and talked to her a bit about the situation. She took over 30 minutes of class time to talk with the students and share their feelings. They looking up information in the Bible and prayed. They're trying to best figure out how to help D as a class when she returns to school.
This is a situation you never really think about addressing when your child skips off to their first day of Kindergarten.
A second issue is that the teacher shared with me that one of the other student's mothers is getting ready to have brain surgery. My gosh. It's the mother of one of Matthew's best little girl friends. They've known each other since babies practically. We've not spent as much time together at church since the children are older but she has worked in IF clinics in the area so we kind of had that little IF bond thing going on a bit. Plus they're just nice people. I'll be praying for her tonight as well.
Lastly, there was a new boy that started up at this school brand new for third grade. Matthew noted that I would be attending a different school next week for a test week and might never come back. This is a friend that Matthew has spoken of often. We met his parents at back to school night and they all seemed very nice. I would suppose that they feel the school isn't such a great fit but I'm biased and think how could it not LOL!
I always have lofty ideas that each new year is going to bring wonderful peace and harmony in all things. But it doesn't really. In our minds as humans it's an opportunity to set a firm time for a new start but in the grand universe, it doesn't really mean a thing at all. January 1 is just another day as the earth spins on its axis and turns around the sun.
Not a very uplifting blog but I'm feeling kind of sad tonight. The stark reality of death and a life cut short takes the spark out. But it also reminds me how fragile and fleeting life can be so I hug my kids and husband a little closer and thank God fully for each day that we have together.
He has a classmate D and several months ago he mentioned that her mother was sick, although, he didn't seem to know what was wrong with her. I filed it in the back of my mind and didn't think much of it since then.
Today he said that D's mother died last night. I was so shocked and saddened. How cruel to lose your mother at eight years old. I called his teacher and talked to her a bit about the situation. She took over 30 minutes of class time to talk with the students and share their feelings. They looking up information in the Bible and prayed. They're trying to best figure out how to help D as a class when she returns to school.
This is a situation you never really think about addressing when your child skips off to their first day of Kindergarten.
A second issue is that the teacher shared with me that one of the other student's mothers is getting ready to have brain surgery. My gosh. It's the mother of one of Matthew's best little girl friends. They've known each other since babies practically. We've not spent as much time together at church since the children are older but she has worked in IF clinics in the area so we kind of had that little IF bond thing going on a bit. Plus they're just nice people. I'll be praying for her tonight as well.
Lastly, there was a new boy that started up at this school brand new for third grade. Matthew noted that I would be attending a different school next week for a test week and might never come back. This is a friend that Matthew has spoken of often. We met his parents at back to school night and they all seemed very nice. I would suppose that they feel the school isn't such a great fit but I'm biased and think how could it not LOL!
I always have lofty ideas that each new year is going to bring wonderful peace and harmony in all things. But it doesn't really. In our minds as humans it's an opportunity to set a firm time for a new start but in the grand universe, it doesn't really mean a thing at all. January 1 is just another day as the earth spins on its axis and turns around the sun.
Not a very uplifting blog but I'm feeling kind of sad tonight. The stark reality of death and a life cut short takes the spark out. But it also reminds me how fragile and fleeting life can be so I hug my kids and husband a little closer and thank God fully for each day that we have together.
Thursday, January 3, 2008
New Year's Resolution
My my, perhaps my resolution should be to be a more regular blogger. I totally spazzed over the holidays. I still don't have my holiday cards out LOL! So if you're wondering where your holiday greeting is, it's on the way. And if you're going to ask me about where the letter is, forget-about-it!
I see my readership doubled since November. I'd love to hear from my readers, especially if there are any regulars so drop me a line sometime :D I realize I never posted that template for scrapbooking. I hope to get that done this month. I found a couple more inspirations so I guess I'd better get a move along. I haven't scrapped anything either. Perhaps this will be the month I get myself together, organized and ready to do some scrapping!
I don't know if I'll play catch up but things are going well. I wrote the following for a breastfeeding site I frequent but felt like sharing it here.
A lot of breastfeeding moms pass through here. Some for a day, some for a week, some for months and some for years. If I had a dime for every time I've read a post from a mom who feels guilty about not being able to breastfeed or that they have failed or are a failure when things don't work out, I'd have a bankful of money.
I was reading my Nov./Dec. issue of New Beginnings the other night and read a passage that was so very meaningful to me. And I thought I have to share this with others I know. The quote is actually from a book called "Defining Your Own Success: Breastfeeding After Breast Reduction Surgery" by Diana West. Now this is written in regards to women who have physical problems with their breasts and milk production but I think it's apt for the general nursing mom as well.
Diana West writes: "Defining your own success means looking beyond conventional definitions of breastfeeding success and determining for yourself, according to your own needs, abilities and unique circumstances, the true value of your efforts ....You must view your experience with a deep appreciation of the mothering and lactation abilities you do have rather than feeling deprived of what you cannot have."
I think this speaks volumes as so many of us look at it as our own short-comings or failures and what a fresh way to look at and value the time and efforts we provide our children no matter how you define "successful breastfeeding."
I think this carries over into life as well. I know for myself I'm always thinking and focusing on things I don't do well. Perhaps I need to turn it around and pat myself on the back at the things I do well or the small victories each day. I think I'll make my new year's resolution to be at the end of the day I should reflect on my day and think about at least one thing I did that day that I'm proud of instead of bemoaning all the mistakes I think I made. Other than that I wasn't planning to make a resolution other than the same as always as everyone else: lose weight, get organized, etc.
Happy New Year!
I see my readership doubled since November. I'd love to hear from my readers, especially if there are any regulars so drop me a line sometime :D I realize I never posted that template for scrapbooking. I hope to get that done this month. I found a couple more inspirations so I guess I'd better get a move along. I haven't scrapped anything either. Perhaps this will be the month I get myself together, organized and ready to do some scrapping!
I don't know if I'll play catch up but things are going well. I wrote the following for a breastfeeding site I frequent but felt like sharing it here.
A lot of breastfeeding moms pass through here. Some for a day, some for a week, some for months and some for years. If I had a dime for every time I've read a post from a mom who feels guilty about not being able to breastfeed or that they have failed or are a failure when things don't work out, I'd have a bankful of money.
I was reading my Nov./Dec. issue of New Beginnings the other night and read a passage that was so very meaningful to me. And I thought I have to share this with others I know. The quote is actually from a book called "Defining Your Own Success: Breastfeeding After Breast Reduction Surgery" by Diana West. Now this is written in regards to women who have physical problems with their breasts and milk production but I think it's apt for the general nursing mom as well.
Diana West writes: "Defining your own success means looking beyond conventional definitions of breastfeeding success and determining for yourself, according to your own needs, abilities and unique circumstances, the true value of your efforts ....You must view your experience with a deep appreciation of the mothering and lactation abilities you do have rather than feeling deprived of what you cannot have."
I think this speaks volumes as so many of us look at it as our own short-comings or failures and what a fresh way to look at and value the time and efforts we provide our children no matter how you define "successful breastfeeding."
I think this carries over into life as well. I know for myself I'm always thinking and focusing on things I don't do well. Perhaps I need to turn it around and pat myself on the back at the things I do well or the small victories each day. I think I'll make my new year's resolution to be at the end of the day I should reflect on my day and think about at least one thing I did that day that I'm proud of instead of bemoaning all the mistakes I think I made. Other than that I wasn't planning to make a resolution other than the same as always as everyone else: lose weight, get organized, etc.
Happy New Year!
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